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Anyone feel the same way

Anyone else feel the same way? I'm scared of falling in love..and being attached. I have fallen in love before..but I couldn't date..so I was forced to move on. I never/rarely get jealous though.. I learned to feel happy for people.. I wonder if it's normal.

December 21, 2012

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Laker1294

@gangar32 Yeah. To fully understand love..you need psychology.. I read about love..before it was pretty interesting.

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Laker1294

[quote=PleaseShutUp]Please shut it. You're a teenager.Teenagers don't know the meaning of love. Stop talking about love. Love is a mature thing.[/quote]

Please stop assuming..just because I'm 18. Age does not determine maturity. You can be 50 and be immature. It depends on the person.

Edit: I know the difference between infatuation and love..because I've experienced both.

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Laker1294

@gangar32 well love is basically chemicals in your brain..

@wordolio I wanted to know basil's opinions. I posted it on Facebook too.

@ImWada A lot of college students don't take relationships seriously..based off of what I've seen..in the media..and on basil (other people's posts).

@fun2killu lust lasts short term and it's a waste of time in my opinion. Love feels good..though. Lust feels good temporarily while love lasts longer.

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fun2killu

Why love when u can lust <3

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steven7x23

sure

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Wordolio

you're asking a bunch of lonely nerds, bad idea,

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SuperSkunk

Every single lousy day of my lousy life there just happens to be this type of thread.m

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Laker1294

@gangar32 Yeah..well love occurs unexpectedly...and you want the best for the person and love them for who they are based off of my experiences. That person is on your mind often too but it's not infatuation.

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Laker1294

@gangar32 I feel scared because loving someone who doesn't love you hurts a lot.. Well I hope you experience love someday. It feels wonderful though.

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LordVoldemort

No. I don't know what any of this is about.

I feel so isolated

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2005chuy

Yeah I'm scared of falling too. Whenever I lean a little bit over railings and look down, I get this like weird feeling, almost like I want to jump or something.

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Schokoshake

I have no fear of falling in love. I crave love very much so that I cannot be afraid. If I am hurt, so it goes, if not, I have a wonderfully awesome person to pass through life with and have a family with. No one wants to be forever alone in the long run.

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ghunbong

im currently a closeted gay dating another closeted guy. It's hard, first falling in love, second being so private, and finally...know itll end some day :-

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fun2killu

u musta been a botty call.. sorry

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Deciduous

i get jealous sometimes even of good friends
wouldn't say i'm really...scared of opening myself up to people? but i kind of accept that i will usually be screwed over, hurt, or something in those situations.

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