My Father disowned me.
Ok let me start of with how it all began...
My father broke up with my half-sisters mother, and then later met my own mother a few years after they met they got married and ended up pregnant with me...
and moved to Great Britain. When I turn 2, My half-sister (Who was 16) came to the UK to stay with our Father and my Mother for the summer - causing havoc. The Monday after she arrived my sister punched my 2 year old self so hard in the stomach it left a bruise! My Mother told her that if she ever did that again she would be sorry (e.g threatening her) Anyhow that evening she told my dad the biggest lie which could have broke my parents up - "I saw your wife punching your baby in the stomach, she threatened me not to tell you" that evening my parents argued for hours and my half-sister ran away for attention. When she was found (By my mom) she was forced to tell the truth and my Father sent her back to Chicago, we never saw her again for 20 years...
Anyhow on my 24th birthday, this lying, conniving worm manages to get back into our lives - this time acting all happy and such a loving person. Convincing my mother she was a changed person. How wrong was she...
A few months ago I stayed with my sister in London, helping her with her 1 year old baby and her AWFUL 8 year old son. I eventually left and came back home as it was so depressing - Today she speaks to my Father on the phone about my visit... He confronted me over the phone saying that I picked up her 1 year old son, FLUNG him into his highchair and said "Take you *cuss word here* son" and stormed out. He later said she said that I kept picking him up by his legs.... (Wow...) He moves onto the lies she made up about her 9 year old son, saying I kept telling him to shut up, calling him a brat... HITTING HIM, swearing at him!
My dad said he wants nothing to do with me anymore as I have been hurting his grandchildren! And I did nothing wrong! Some poison who I didn't see since I was 2 years old ruined my whole life in the space of 6 months with her lies! She is supposed to be 39 years old! I don't know what to do... He said I am not welcome home!
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@thatricksta: To make it clear, I also don't believe that blood is thicker than water or whatever. I'm just saying, before people actually go "Omg you shouldn't care about your father anymore yadayada" and said stuff like that they should understand that she has lived with her father for quite a while and may (or may not) have an actual relation with him. It may just be that in this particular situation he did what he did.
this doesnt make sense, your dad who has known you for 20 years suddenly thinks your personality changes when you visit your sister.
And instead of believed you it instead believes her over the phone. If i knew a family member for 20 years and someone told me they were cussing and swearing over the phone i probably woulnt believe them.
Unless in fact at home your a violent person lol.
Then get him out of your life for now, and wait until he realizes what he said was completely wrong, and become a happy family again afterwards.
Of course, it's easier said then done, but hey that's what I would do.
Just saying to all the people who are bad mouthing her dad and says she should cut off contacts with him - Have you considered that she might like her father? Despite what an ass he has been towards her, she obviously doesn't resent him. Stop being asses yourselves and consider what she feels.
Get those imbeciles out of your life, they aren't worth the trouble. If your father wont believe YOU, his friggin' daughter then no offense but he's stupid. Who the hell does that to a baby, how gullible is he? You don't sound like the type of person to do that and he should know you better than anyone.
Bunch of idiots lmao.
I still don't see why your sister would do this.
Man if youre gonna get blamed for crap like that jess then you should have killed the kid, no joke. Your dad sounds like an irrational person from what you just said, taking the word of your sister with whom he doesnt see or live with over yours.
wow
he doesnt want u to hurt his grandchildren?
lol
but hes OK with her almost killing u? (a punch in the stomach for a 2 year old can kill assuming it was a hard one cuz it left a bruise)
she did tell him that she punched u right?
just tell him she is lieng and that she lied about the punch 22 years ago
Seriously what is wrong with her? If anything sounds more like she should be lucky child services weren't called seeing as she doesn't seem capable of looking after her own child. Did your dad even try to listen to your side of the story or just too stubborn or blind to see the lies being spread? Should record it next time as proof but this is one messed up elder sibling. Have you tried talking to your mum about this?
@Liddy At this point, I wouldn't pay any more attention to your reputation. It's pretty clear that your father will always have a bias towards his first daughter.
@Liddy: So what happened to her husband. If she even had one...
[quote=xoqtprincessxo]Go have a talk with your half-sis and sort things out. If it doesn't work out, beat her up and then make friends with her.[/quote]
No, she makes more lies up continuously. She is nothing but a trouble maker, if I tried to speak to her I bet she will make up more lies and use my phone number as proof that I contacted her and said stuff.
i would find a different place to stay temporarily until you can figure things out. i'd contact him like via email or phone/texting and try to convince him
Only thing you can do.
Kill your sister.
Or you can move and disappear forever.
But seriously, you gotta kill your sister.
Go have a talk with your half-sis and sort things out. If it doesn't work out, beat her up and then make friends with her.
[quote=demonicrack]I forgot if your the person who had that Bratty little 8 year old nephew.
Anyway, you need to find a way to get proof that youre taking care of her children and she's being a punk bi**h.
Set up a camera or something. But not so that it invades anyone's privacy.
Also, your half sister is an effing prick and she should be left alone to take care of her two children, ALONE[/quote]
Yes that is me, That is also why she's making up these lies I told my dad about what he son did to me etc... so he must have asked her about it. I have not been to see her since then, and I will NEVER take care of her children EVER again, not even for 30 seconds. I hope she is proud of herself and gets exposed for the liar she's always been!
Edit: she was in the house with me when she left her son alone crying for 40 minutes, I took him to the kitchen and said "Take your son" I did not throw him in the highchair, I handed him to her... gently.
I forgot if your the person who had that Bratty little 8 year old nephew.
Anyway, you need to find a way to get proof that youre taking care of her children and she's being a punk bi**h.
Set up a camera or something. But not so that it invades anyone's privacy.
Also, your half sister is an effing prick and she should be left alone to take care of her two children, ALONE
Oh sounds serious. Clear things up with your dad, tbh, all you want to do is just try and convince him that you're not that type of person.
Your sister is a POS and you should record everything that happens.
My condolences.