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i need conversation topics

ok im not a very good conversationalist, never have been, I have some social skills but what I really need are conversation topics

please and thank you anyone that can help

April 21, 2014

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WontPostMuch

I've been told I'm a good conversationalist. There really isn't a formula or any talking points to it, just learning how to keep the flow of conversation going. What I like to do is instead of just asking people about their interests, I'll share small anecdotes that segue into talk about a subject. For example, my roommate used to work at a movie theater so he got to watch lots of movies, and I'll just share a couple of instances where he made forced me to watch a movie that I hadn't seen but everyone else has. It's pretty funny if you tell it the right way. As I'm telling it, I remember my roommate is good at imitating actors and I'll remember how he once managed to perfectly imitate our chem professor by adding a slight surfer dude undertone to it. Which can then lead to talks about silly or awful professors or California beaches since I brought up surfing.

See what I mean? The art of conversation is to temper it and be expressive. Even dumb things can keep a conversation going or remind the other person of a funny story to share.

Reply April 21, 2014
billabong79

Talk about maplestory duh... But seriously talk about something you find interesting, if they have the same interest - great, if not, continue to chat until something you both know and like comes up.

Reply April 21, 2014
LordVoldemort

appreciate all the answers but i was really looking for more specific things

i have social skills i just dont have many topics to start a conversation from owell

Reply April 21, 2014
simaini

if you're in school, just ask about the thing you're learning. like, "oh, do you get this stuff?" or something like that.

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mitarumetaro

"Are you a top or a bottom?"

Reply April 21, 2014
mechibi

talk about the weather

Reply April 21, 2014
halfway

Ask people about themselves then if they're not self centered they'll do the same, eventually you then have a conversation and when you find a topic you both like such as football you can discuss who is your favorite team etc.

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