Need ideas, please.
Good evening guys..
So, let`s go to the point.
Well, I`ve been in relationship with my girlfriend for 1,9 years so far and I really love her, if I may say that, but for the past two weeks, we`ve had major problems. I don`t feel any interest about me from her, and I`m realllllly afraid to lose her, cause I feel very good in this relationship. But that`s not the main problem.
Anyway, I was on her phone the other day and her phone let`s you check the sms she`ve received without lookin` at em (I can see them without even being in any aplication, so don`t tell me i was spying on her), and one of the sms said : Just don`t be too harsh on (insert random guy name here, let`s call him T for now). THe sms was from a guy I don`t know, but I know he is not a threat to this relationship. So, I was curious then and checked her answer to the sms and it said : I`ll try not to be.. but i doubt we`ll meet tomorow tough.
So yeah.. now I`m dieing to know who this T guy is. I`ve really no idea, cause she never told me about him.. I`m really afraid to lose her.. So, basil, any ideas how to find out who this guy is without letting her know? We don`t have any common friends that she would trust and tell, and she lives in the capital and I don`t, so different citys.. Any ideas?
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[quote=Mageklan]I don`t want to, cause then he`ll accuse me for spying on her and reading her sms. >.<[/quote]
But you did read her sms. What, are you not smart enough to follow your own course of actions
If she actually wants to be your girlfriend she wouldn't break up with you anyways, assuming you're not that private about your stuff with her.
[quote=Keey]@Mageklan:
- you are feeling threatened by this unknown person
- you are too afraid to ask your girlfriend about it in fear of getting dumped
- you are too afraid to confront the unknown person and ask him his problem
i am not being harsh i am being honest
if you keep being a coward like this you are not going to be very successful with girls[/quote]
-yes, I am.
-yes, because this time it`s real. Girls hate it when you look throught their stuff.. and I WILL get dumped if I ask her directly.
-honestly, I`ve no idea where he lives, how to contact him etcetc.
I think this is the right time to say - curiosity killed the cat..
@Mageklan:
- you are feeling threatened by this unknown person
- you are too afraid to ask your girlfriend about it in fear of getting dumped
- you are too afraid to confront the unknown person and ask him his problem
i am not being harsh i am being honest
if you keep being a coward like this you are not going to be very successful with girls
[quote=Keey]@Mageklan:
and like a [i]man[/i] you tell him that she's your girlfriend and you can do whatever you want[/quote]
I`m not sure why are you bringing him in this, but if I were to tell him anything, I would make myself to look like a really big tard, cause there`s a chance that he`s just a budd or something..
If I were to ask her, believe me, it`s 90% chance for her to break up with me.. and that, i`ll be honest, is the last thing on earth I want to happen.
@above this is not the case. My girl doesn`t like that kind of men.
@Mageklan:
and like a [i]man[/i] you tell him that she's your girlfriend and you can do whatever you want
It's over bruh.
[quote=Keey]or
like a boyfriend with a [i]spine[/i] you could confront her about it[/quote]
I don`t want to, cause then he`ll accuse me for spying on her and reading her sms. >.<
or
like a boyfriend with a [i]spine[/i] you could confront her about it