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How to ask a girl out?

I'm a senior in high school and I've been eyeballing this girl for a year now; we have a same class together, but she barely goes to that class and we don't really have a chance to talk. Yesterday, the school held a party for the seniors. So, I figured that this was my final chance to ask her out. My plan was to ask her to sign my year book and while I sign hers, I were to ask her out, but she left the party before I had the chance. Now, there's two days of school left, which are tomorrow and Monday, but I can't go to school tomorrow because of a college orientation and I don't even know if she'll come to school those days. My other option is to ask her out on our graduation, which is on June 27th, but I'm not certain if I'll be able to have the chance to talk to her. So, I'm contemplating on what to do. Any ideas?

Update: As I figured, she didn't come to class today. I guess I'll have to ask her out on graduation.

June 9, 2016

31 Comments • Newest first

xylyls

stop worrying about girls and worry about stocks. get rich first

Reply June 13, 2016
RedEyed

@fradddd: nah mate i say im more unsuccessful than that

Reply June 13, 2016
2005chuy

@fradddd: Sure. The friendzone isn't real anyway, so as long as you stay close friends throughout that time you'll be fine. That is, if she finds you attractive. Do a few extra things when you decide to ask her out, like playful shoving or teasing. You're going into college, that'll still work.

Reply June 13, 2016
fradddd

@redeyed I'd say I'm more unsuccessful than that.

Reply June 13, 2016
Xdwow2

You rarely talk to her, yet somehow you think it's possible she might go out with you? Unless you're handsome AF, I don't see how this is going to work out.

Reply June 12, 2016
RedEyed

@fradddd: well if you think your the least successful come meet me then

Reply June 12, 2016
John5p

"You barely even knew her, yet you have the plans to ask her out? What can I get from getting in to a relationship with you? Exactly! Nothing..."

@eternalmemory If you view relationships as a means to get something out of it, you are doing it wrong. People are not commodities. Quit objectifying people based on their external worth and start viewing relationships as a way to get to know the other person on a deeper level. I've asked out a girl I knew in college whome I barely knew and it worked out fine. She accepted to go on a date.

Tbh you are better off staying single until you start seeing people for who they are rather than what credentials they have as if you are job interviewing for the perfect boyfriend candidate.

Reply June 12, 2016 - edited
GarrettsHot

well i think we all know why eternalmemory is single, and its not for any of the reasons she stated LOL

Reply June 12, 2016 - edited
fradddd

@2005chuy: what if I follow your advice for 1.5 years? Could I still ask her out.

Also, I remember when people when say "you don't need to have a girlfriend in middle school, just wait til high school cause there are so many babes". But nope, now people say wait til freaking college. Next it'll be wait til you're retired.

Reply June 12, 2016 - edited
MagicalImage

@eternalmemory: Yeah, I may not know much about relationships, nor do I know much about her, but this may be the last time I see her. It's worth taking the risk then not bother trying. If she says no, I'll just move on, if she says yes, that's great.

Reply June 11, 2016 - edited
UpcomingNerd

@2005chuy: Idk man, I'm not 'attractive' but I have never had a problem getting a date. Just showing a little confidence and humor will get you a lot further than you think.

@eternalmemory Have you even been on a date?

Reply June 11, 2016 - edited
2005chuy

Unless you're a pretty attractive dude, asking out a girl you barely know won't get you anywhere. Try to figure out what you have in common and talk about that for a while. Don't think of her as 'the chick you're tryna smash', act like you want to be her friend. After a few days, your chance of her saying yes will skyrocket.

Reply June 10, 2016 - edited
XronellX

inb4 she not going to prom.

Reply June 10, 2016 - edited
ILikeTurtles

@magicalimage: I'd do it Monday. Too many people will be around her during graduation.

Reply June 10, 2016 - edited
MagicalImage

@natalie: I see her around the school, even when she doesn't come to that class, and she's in the yearbook club. As for contacting her through social media, I can't. She doesn't have any social media. So my last bet is asking her on Monday or graduation.

Reply June 10, 2016 - edited
fradddd

If you already know you like her beyond her looks, then call her and ask her out. Or just do it abruptly, the next time you see her by herself.

But also don't listen to me, since I'm the least successful person with girls ever.

Reply June 9, 2016 - edited
ILikeTurtles

Just walk up to her and ask her

Reply June 9, 2016 - edited
natalie

inb4 she doesn't graduate cause she never goes to school

like the others said you'll have a lot of chances to meet girls in college. even though you've been eyeballing her for a year she's probably not very responsible. if you must, head over to facebook and try to meet up somewhere idk

Reply June 9, 2016 - edited
Bluemistar

^ I somewhat agree with the above comments. Also, factoring in that you only have two days of school left, there is very little hope that you guys will be seeing each other around anymore, as there may not even be a chance that she will be attending graduation (some of my friends didn't bother to show up due to laziness).

Though, I can only say that if you do happen to meet on the day of graduation, go up to her and ask her if you can take a picture with her (it's normal to ask even people whom you wouldn't necessarily talk to often), then seize the opportunity to ask her out. It's either a hit or a miss.

Good luck to you though, and congratulations on almost graduating! Remember, there's still college for you to meet someone who you may take a liking to.

Reply June 9, 2016 - edited
RedEyed

be like me just think and then forget about her and graduate then move on

Reply June 9, 2016 - edited
UpcomingNerd

My advice, stay single. College is amazing. You will meet a variety of beautiful woman with whom you can take your time to ask out.

Reply June 9, 2016 - edited