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@bombinator:

I did try to spell pigeon, no idea why it got auto-corrected by my phone that :S

[quote=dimo]Send the person a carrier pidgin.[/quote]

i thought it was a weird way of spelling pigeon until i looked it up

[quote=LovelyCorpse]If you're the guy, text back, if you're the girl, wait for a text.

If you're a gay male, and the dominant one, text back.

If the girl is the alpha in the relationship, she texts back.

It's the same concept with friendships, starting conversations, sexual intercourse, proposing, and other ways of asserting your dominance.

If they do it first, it means you're the recessive one.[/quote]
He is talking about a post date etiquette
not a post BDSM etiquette

Send the person a carrier pigeon.

Texting? I usually say I had a good time after the day is done and we go our separate ways.

I wouldn't text right after the date. You say at the end of the date that you had a good time (if you did), say good night or good bye, and leave it open for another time if you want with just a simple, "this was fun, we should do it again sometime" sort of thing. Then if she says yes, say you'll call/text her sometime soon with the deets.

That's all you need to do. She just went on a date with you. If it went well, she's thinking about you without you texting her and saying things you already said in person.

[quote=LovelyCorpse]If you're the guy, text back, if you're the girl, wait for a text.

If you're a gay male, and the dominant one, text back.

If the girl is the alpha in the relationship, she texts back.[/quote]

interesting... good response. i'm guessing i should wait a day or so?