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If you pay for someones food,

do you have the right / is it socially acceptable to take their leftovers, assuming they have any? And I don't mean like bringing a bag of chips to a party.

I was arguing with someone today about this. o_o

[quote=simuthetheif]wait do you mean as in they don't finish and ask for it to be packed up to take home?
or they can't finish and it's either you eat it or it's getting thrown out
I assumed the latter when i answered
if you mean they want to pack it up and you say since you paid you're taking it home...that theoretically makes sense but it's kinda super awkward I'd think [/quote]
They are not going to just leave it, they want to pack it up to take home.

February 26, 2012

17 Comments • Newest first

LokcCap

You bought food for them for them to eat. It is now theirs, not yours so you have no right.

Reply February 26, 2012
CrayonScribble

It would just be awkward if you did tbh.

Reply February 26, 2012
SensuaLobster

[quote=Meergl]Even if they want their leftovers? I didn't mean stuff they were just going to leave on the table.[/quote]

if they wanted it, then no it's not socially acceptable..nor is it being a good friend unless you were still starving.

Reply February 26, 2012
iLikeToBBoy

Depends on what it is.

Reply February 26, 2012
fleetfoxes

yes you should also interrupt them as they eat and steal bites with your fork from their plate

Reply February 26, 2012
Meergl

[quote=swagnificent]if i use my $ for them, then hell yeah i want their leftovers. wasting is for pricks[/quote]
Even if they want their leftovers? I didn't mean stuff they were just going to leave on the table.

Reply February 26, 2012
Meergl

[quote=greenbandit]The hell did I just read?[/quote]
What do you not understand?

Reply February 26, 2012 - edited
Meergl

[quote=ehnogi]It really depends on the situation.

If you're paying for a first date, it wouldn't help with the impression when you start eating your girl/boy's leftovers ; unless the two of you are comfortable with it.

If you have been with someone for a long time, it might be more acceptable. My wife usually asks me to eat whatever she can't finish.[/quote]
Haha, if you're married I think your situation is a little bit different than what I was envisioning.

Reply February 26, 2012 - edited
Meergl

[quote=tumms]It depends if they're going to eat it.[/quote]

[quote=simuthetheif]wait do you mean as in they don't finish and ask for it to be packed up to take home?
or they can't finish and it's either you eat it or it's getting thrown out
I assumed the latter when i answered
if you mean they want to pack it up and you say since you paid you're taking it home...that theoretically makes sense but it's kinda super awkward I'd think [/quote]
They want to save it for a second meal later. Or something.

Reply February 26, 2012 - edited
simuthetheif

wait do you mean as in they don't finish and ask for it to be packed up to take home?
or they can't finish and it's either you eat it or it's getting thrown out
I assumed the latter when i answered
if you mean they want to pack it up and you say since you paid you're taking it home...that theoretically makes sense but it's kinda super awkward I'd think

Reply February 26, 2012 - edited
ehnogi

It really depends on the situation.

If you're paying for a first date, it wouldn't help with the impression when you start eating your girl/boy's leftovers ; unless the two of you are comfortable with it.

If you have been with someone for a long time, it might be more acceptable. My wife usually asks me to eat whatever she can't finish.

Reply February 26, 2012 - edited
MatthewDough

Leftovers?
I imagine it's okay, as long as you ask.
I mean, then it'll be kinda weird.

Reply February 26, 2012 - edited
SensuaLobster

i think it is, as long as it's consensual

Reply February 26, 2012 - edited
SnailsinnerX

@RugbyBall: Oh. Well, I meant that, since I paid for the food and there are leftovers, why shouldn't I be able to eat it? You shouldn't care what society thinks. They don't know any better.

Reply February 26, 2012 - edited
SnailsinnerX

[quote=RugbyBall]Theoretically, I'd say yes, you do have that right since you paid for it.

Is it socially acceptable? Hell no.[/quote]

Why should I have to put on a show for society?

Reply February 26, 2012 - edited
xFaceIess

What the first guy said, Lols.

Reply February 26, 2012 - edited