Any thoughts on this?
So, I had this thread open before.
http://www.basilmarket.com/forum/1868550/1/32576998What_should_I_do_.html
Anyway.
He finally contacted me but all he said to me was, "I am sorry :l" on Facebook.
So, I raged to him in private message.
I told to him that how irresponsible he was and I hoped he would tell me what's going and such.
I also said that if I didn't get any replies from him in a week, I would assume he wanted to end this relationship.
He replied back saying, "if you're going to talk like that to me then do whatever you want .."
I replied with, "What else am I supposed to think when I don't even have a clue what's going on?"
His reply to that was, "I don't know.. it's always negative with you"
Then, I asked him to tell me what's going on again.
The conversation went like this:
Me: Can you please tell me what's going on?
And I will stop asking and bothering you ;/
Him: It's just too much
Me: Can you make it simple? Sighs. Nevermind anymore.
Him: I can't
Me: Doesn't matter anymore. Just go on whatever you're doing.
Him: What does that mean?
Me: Nothing. I will leave you alone like I said.
Him: So what? It's the end?
Me: The only way to end this, it's you to end it. I am just going to sit back and wait until you're ready to tell me.
So, talk to me whenever you're ready I guess.
Him: Why do I have to do this?
Me: What do you mean? Do you still want to be with me?
So, I am waiting for his reply.
I don't know what esle to think of.
I stuck myself at the phase [b]"Why do I have to do this?"[/b]
Does that mean,
"Why do I have to be the person to do it?
or
"Why do I have to do it? I have no reason"
Any thoughts?
Call me whatever you want, I just want some opinions on this issue.
[i] I might update this thread later about how it goes.[/i]
4 Comments • Newest first
Give him space for a bit.
He wouldn't even pick up my calls.
Talk about face to face.
I do not want to break up with him, I just want to at least to know how he feels about this.
He didn't even reply about if he still wants to be with me.
Eh. I don't know anymore.
Well, too bad.
If he wants to break up, he has to get his balls up and do it because I am not doing it.
He sounds kind of like me in someways.
Anyways, he either wants to break up, but doesn't have the balls to do it, so he's trying to ignore you and have you give up, or he's going through a rough time, and he doesn't want to tell you to trouble and worry you.
You can't just expect a guy to tell you everything he's doing. We need our privacy, and our own little secrets. Sometimes, there are things we just need to get through alone, by ourselves. We're not obligated to tell you guys everything, hence his "Why do I have to do this?"
I see it as the latter option, based on his responses of: "Him: What does that mean?" and "Him: So what? It's the end?"
He clearly still cares about what you're feeling.
I think you just need to give him some space and let him sort his feelings out.
so what exactly is the reason why you two are on the verge of breaking up?
i read the other thread and i still dont get it rofl.
So basically he stopped talking to you for a day, and now he wants you to break up with him?