I've jumped from relationship to relationship from when I was 16 all the way to 22. I realized I need to be single right now to work on myself and enjoy my own company. I would like a relationship in the future because I don't want to be alone when I'm old.
the first real one i ever had lasted for over a year. now i barely even talk to the girl.
its not worth it in high school. this girl literally texted me [b]all the time[/b] and i really did enjoy talking to her. But when it is such a constant and unending thing it really is not worth it. so my advice is if you do have one don't let her BE your life. make sure she knows ahead of time you have your own things you need to do. this is also based on my observations of relationships that have lasted longer than mine. you dont see people who have been in relationships for over a year constantly cling to each other, which is actually much more healthy.
Because everyone [i]needs[/i] companionship. It's a basic need to love and be loved. It's not a survival need, but it's a need all the same. That's why people get lonely without it.
I need someone to share feelings with, to play with, to cook for me, to tell me I'm cute, spend all the time with, make me laugh and vice versa, talk about our future together, sex, and making me feel human cuz humans are about relationships and connection
You can only lie and pretend that you don't need anyone for so long, y'know? Tell yourself and other that being single and alone doesn't bother you, or that you're probably better off this way.
'Cause you need companionship, one way or another.
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Boredom plain and simple
Well, there was a girl I REALLY liked so for my top two reasons in order, it would be 1. I cared a lot for her 2. loneliness
I don't need a relationship right now.
I've jumped from relationship to relationship from when I was 16 all the way to 22. I realized I need to be single right now to work on myself and enjoy my own company. I would like a relationship in the future because I don't want to be alone when I'm old.
lonely tbh
idk it just feels good to have someone who cares about you and gives you hugs, I dont have to have a relationship but then I get lonely
the first real one i ever had lasted for over a year. now i barely even talk to the girl.
its not worth it in high school. this girl literally texted me [b]all the time[/b] and i really did enjoy talking to her. But when it is such a constant and unending thing it really is not worth it. so my advice is if you do have one don't let her BE your life. make sure she knows ahead of time you have your own things you need to do. this is also based on my observations of relationships that have lasted longer than mine. you dont see people who have been in relationships for over a year constantly cling to each other, which is actually much more healthy.
Because everyone [i]needs[/i] companionship. It's a basic need to love and be loved. It's not a survival need, but it's a need all the same. That's why people get lonely without it.
being in a relationship sounds annoying.. gotta like do everything with 1 person
Because it's nice to live with my best friend.
It's nice to go out on adventures, dates, and just do silly things together.
It's nice to have someone who understands you and accepts you for all your weirdness.
It's cuddle season? Duh
I don't need one. I just miss physical contact that doesn't gross me out.
I need someone to share feelings with, to play with, to cook for me, to tell me I'm cute, spend all the time with, make me laugh and vice versa, talk about our future together, sex, and making me feel human cuz humans are about relationships and connection
You can only lie and pretend that you don't need anyone for so long, y'know? Tell yourself and other that being single and alone doesn't bother you, or that you're probably better off this way.
'Cause you need companionship, one way or another.
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[quote=snottrocket]i dont need it...
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Need is a strong word that I disagree with. If I needed a relationship now or at any time I'm pretty sure I'd be putting effort into it.
That being said, I'm pretty lonely lol.
survival instinct
we are nothing but mere genetic mules enslaved to dopamine
Do you accept input from a person that [i]doesn't[/i] need one?