My hatred towards my brother is growing stronger
Based on these three things:
1. He judges everything I do
2. He eats all the food in the house
3. He always has to one up me
Does anyone also have a horrible relationship with their siblings? Let me tell you about mine. He makes s comment on everything I do, he just ridicules me. He would say crap about my girlfriend (when I had one), he would even go the length about telling me "this is not funny" when I laugh. I get frustrated all the time the fact that my computer is right next to his, so I have to put a barrier up, so he doesn't see what I do. he would also blame me on things when it's the benefit of the doubt, be a hypocrite and so on.
The second thing Is, he would eat all the food in the house, this may sound like a ridiculous reason, but people have no idea how agravating it can be when you wait till after school to eat something you've been craving all day, and then... Nope, someone has eaten it. >.<. honestly, he's so nosy with the food I eat, whenever he hears any sort of noise in the kitchen, he would go check it out... Like just f*** off. If you don't eat something within 1-3 days, don't bother finding it in the fridge. Help me basil... I'm about to kill that s.o.a.b
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[quote=nattl532]Thanks for everyone's support, however I do not think it is mainly about his insecurities, he's been treating me like this since childhood[/quote]
Bullying is a great way for men to one up other men, giving them a greater chance at mating with women in the tribe. Could it be that he wants to mate with your mom?
Thanks for everyone's support, however I do not think it is mainly about his insecurities, he's been treating me like this since childhood
You need to make him respect you, that is the problem with most young adults these days.
Your brother is insecure, 100% sure because I'm in the same situation (except I'm the older brother). Thank you for making me realize this.
OT: man up, tell that nig (ga) to f off
Your brother is most likely a immature f:aggot who has no life.
19 year olds should be mature and protective of their siblings, not picking on them.
Give him a proper smacking and he should smarten up a little bit.
Do it soon before it gets worse.
@MateoCl im 17, hes 19.
@SomeJello, you know what jokes aside, i would so do that.
@AquaBoogieXD i got a police record already, my oldest brother and dad has called to cops on me, what am i suppose to do.
i think all this bullying has led me to be a rebelious kid, i am the most honest person ever, i hate all the bs that people say, like when soemone asks me "why did you do this", or "go do this", i would be straight up, coz i didnt want to, no i dont want to..and so on, i dont even care anymore about my whole family. My brother once said; The whole family hates you.
That sucks... I've never had a problem with my siblings when they were around, we never really had any major conflicts. tbh, if you just talk to him in a serious way, he'll probably just ridicule you more. Mess that shat up, show him who's boss, but do it in a way that you're capable of, use your smarts. Or just make the best out of it, get out of the house as soon as you can
[quote=MateoCl]@xdwow: not if the parent they share is the father...[/quote]
-SMH-, i meant it doesn't matter if his mother is his stepmother, or his actual mother. Yeah you can rant about how they aren't biologically related, and what not, but what really builds a relationship between a mother and child is how the mother treats the child. There are some really sick women out there who would sell out their children, or leave them to die somewhere; can you call them mothers? Besides, based on the context, it's more than likely that his brother is his biological brother, otherwise he would mention that his brother is actually his step brother.
I really love my little brother
My twin brother is literally the best friend, though he's annoying sometimes
My older brother is...hummmmmm how do I put this
He's a complete idiot. Booksmart, but not streetsmart in the slightest. Thinks he deserves everything in the world, and if someone else gets something--even if it's not something he wants--he'll throw a fit. What worse is that he's dating his personality's doppelganger. She's 10x worse though, and legitimately mentally ill. I cried tears of joy when they moved out.
To give you some perspective, his girlfriend once beat him up, screamed for 4 hours, and broke a ton of things all in the same day. Can you guess why? She couldn't find her $1 pencil sharpener. And he still lives with her because she's his first girlfriend.
"What are you gonna do about it *****?"
"***** I might be!"
"You're one ugly **** boy"
"Sup needle ****?"
"God damn you're such a girl"
"Get your ugly hands out of the Cheetos fat boy"
"God you're an embarrassment"
NEVER call him an ass or a d*. It'll make him happy, srs. Always refer to him as p or b** when he disrespects you.
Get used to using these kinds of phrases. If you're used to being a pushover he's going to fight back hard at first to avoid the impending power shift but eventually he'll come to accept you're not going to take his crap anymore. He'll come to respect you and your confidence will soar. As of now I can tell you're absolutely not ready for the real world, and in a weird kinda way having an ass for a brother can totally be a blessing if you learn how to deal with him head on.
@xdwow: not if the parent they share is the father...
[quote=MateoCl]What if theyre step siblings? o.o[/quote]
Still his mother, step or not.
[quote=xdwow]"im about to kill that s.o.a.b", you just called your own mother a b. But that's none of my business.[/quote]
What if theyre step siblings? o.o
"im about to kill that s.o.a.b", you just called your own mother a b. But that's none of my business.
then i think you should kill him to avenge your family
let your hatred grow stronger
dkm ha. Thank god i don't have any siblings
Same. My sister is like that. She also talks crap about my friends as if hers are better, and whenever i say no to something she goes like "wtf why not. Why.why" like she wont accept no for an answer and its mad annoying like back off. The only good thing is that she cooks for me whenever im hungry.
I had the same with my sister, but then she found a job and isn't home for almost the whole day.
Have you talked to him about it yet? Also you should fight him. No I'm not joking. Worst case scenario you stop speaking for like an hour. People tend to stop doing things when there's a clear consequence represented.
Seems to me like you have a "Sasuke and Itachi" situation there.
If you end up beating him up to a pulp.. or more... he'll end up saying "I will always love you."
I have a terrible relationship with one of my brothers. How old are the two of you?
Lol.
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