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Moving out my moms house

Recently my mom has been making me feel bad so bad that ive gone through
depression, suicidal thoughts , etc things like that.
Would it be a wise decision to move out of her house? id probably move in with a friend someone who cares about my feelings and doesnt bully me to the ground like my mom does.
i cant move in with my dad because hes an assbutt

May 29, 2014

17 Comments • Newest first

JekutoNightra

[quote=NightmareMoon]@boredaf
@cerofx
id rather not share my age
how do i end a thread[/quote]
But how will we give you good advice if we don't know how old you are?

Reply June 5, 2014
MeiGuiHua

[quote=Zoneflare4]@ MeiGuiHua sophie such language [/quote]

The OP said that

Reply June 5, 2014
Zoneflare4

@ MeiGuiHua sophie such language

Reply June 5, 2014
MeiGuiHua

Nice word to describe your dad, assbutt xD

Reply June 5, 2014
xfallingdreams

Is your friend's parents okay with you moving in permanently?

Reply June 2, 2014
lettucing

if you can afford it and have somebody to live with (unless you can afford your own place)... go for it. you'll be poor-er though but perhaps it is for the better of your overall mental health

Reply June 2, 2014
Kiryuin

you have to leave sometime, but i can warn you if you're leaving with no preparation it's going to be very hard the following year. don't snag an apartment the moment you can afford one, save up money before hand and find a stable job in order the pay rent.

Reply June 2, 2014
NightmareMoon

@Ruew
@east
@halfway
Thank you for your kindness <3
i will move out as soon as summer starts probably i dunno
anyways thank you all

Reply May 29, 2014 - edited
Ruew

Well if it's as bad as you say then yeah move. However, you're probably going to have to get a job to finance yourself/help pay for stuff unless whoever you move in with is extremely generous. Which isn't really bad thing but it'll mean you'll have to manage your time better, which again isn't really a bad thing. Just less time for leisure activities. Sorry about your situation, wish you all the best.

Reply May 29, 2014 - edited
East

Moveee. Get outta there gurl

Reply May 29, 2014 - edited
DolceNGabbana

O bby come to me instead and star livin da Dolce layfe! <3

Reply May 29, 2014 - edited
halfway

If you have a friend that has parents who are willing to take you in, it's one thing for your friend to approve but you need to make sure that the parents are fine with it aswell. If I was in your situation I would do it but make sure once you're under their roof that you apply yourself and help them around the house by cleaning, checking the mail and other small tasks to make their life easier. My sister did something like that last year and she seemed ok, as long as you're respectful and helpful you should be fine. I'm sorry your parents are the way they are. Maybe your mom will realize how much she loves you/misses you when you have time away.

Reply May 29, 2014 - edited
NightmareMoon

[quote=Ipoopster]daddy issues huh.[/quote]

i never really liked my dad hes always been irresponsible
doing things like driving while drunk or him not being at home drinking while my mom leaves my siblings and i homealone

Reply May 29, 2014 - edited
Ipoopster

daddy issues huh.

Reply May 29, 2014 - edited
Nolen

whatever appease your feelings

Reply May 29, 2014 - edited