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Girl relationship problem

So I have a friend named Arlene. She's a university classmate of mine, and we know each other fairly well. Arlene invited me to play League of Legends with her group of friends where I met her boyfriend, Josiah. Josiah was a pretty cool guy, and we continued to play LoL together outside of Arlene's group. Josiah and Arlene are in a long-distance relationship: she moved out of her home state to attend this university, and he's still there.

That was all about half a year ago. Summer break happened, next quarter happened, I'm now back in school with Arlene. But recently, I've seen her holding hands with an upperclassman we both know, and I don't know what to make of it. Is she cheating on Josiah? He's a friend of mine, so do I owe it to him to tell him? It's been a long time since I last played LoL with Josiah: I have no internet connection in my apartment, so I don't know if they're still together. Maybe she's just the touchy-feely type who doesn't see anything special about holding hands? She didn't seem very shy about it.

So far, I've been doing nothing: chances are she and Josiah broke up anyway. But should I take any actions here?

October 17, 2012

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Omegathorion

[quote=gangar32]maybe they broke up and you didnt know. just ask arlene who is she dating[/quote]
I'm pretty sure they broke up and I didn't know, but in that case I don't really need to ask her who she's dating.

Reply October 17, 2012