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Need some help with mixed signals /

This might turn out to be a long read...forgive me

2 months ago I met this girl in one of our school productions. I thought she was cute, and according to our mutual friend, she thought I was too. I took a big leap and so I asked her out to a dance 2 weeks later. She said yes, we went and had a good time. Ever since then, I've slowly began to like her more and more. Problem is, I have no idea how she sees me, seeing that she keeps giving mixed signals.

We flirt often, although it's always on and off. We've gotten close enough that we can text each other freely about anything and that she trusts me enough to tell me her problems/past relationships. I walked her to class a couple of times too. The thing is, however, the last couple of days have been extremely confusing for me.

Day 1: We had a rehearsal where we did nothing. We slept next to each other on one of the seats, shared a blanket, and cuddled...sorta. She put a (silly) picture of me as her phone's wallpaper and told me to do the same. It's still there. It was cold outside and we held hands when walking to our cars. We also arranged a "date" for saturday.

Day 2: She texts me about how bad she felt and I try to comfort her. We again do nothing at rehearsal and cuddle again. She talks to a friend and at one point calls me "her man." This is the confusing part begins. For the rest of the day we didn't really talk, even when we went to eat dinner together with a group of friends.

Day 3: I walk her to class, but we barely talked. Barely talked for the rest of the day as well. I had to initiate every conversation but she didn't respond much to me.

Day 4: Same as Day 3. I managed to talk to her a little more but still not as flirty as we were the first day.

Day 5: During rehearsal she sat with some friends. I went over to join and hang out with them. She's just talking to them and I just sat minding my own business. Out of nowhere she hugs me/leans on me from behind. I respond positively, but right after things just returned back to normal. I ask her about our "date" and then she says that we couldn't go anymore. Instead she was going to go with other friends (all girls) to the same place, and doesn't want me to feel awkward. When rehearsal ends and we leave, I said bye, but she doesn't respond.

As you can see, I'm getting a ridiculous amount of mixed signals, and I have no idea how to respond to them. I've never been in a relationship before so I don't have much experience. I'm pretty sure I haven't done anything wrong either. Anyone have any idea what's going on or can give me any advice?

Also, she's on her "monthly cycle"....although I'm pretty sure it's not supposed to last all 5 days.