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What is ideal wifey material for you?

or husband...
What degree/job would you want ideal wifey to have?
What amount of money would you want ideal wifey to make? (Do you want a housewife, do you want the wife making bank, do you want the wife to make less than you, blah blah blah)
What set of personality traits would you want your ideal wifey to have?
What ideal height and weight?
What ethnicity?
What size B or D
What role in intercourse? dominant or subbie
Extrovert or introvert?
Sassy or passive?
Yeah. ohkay, I can't think of anything else. You can add more if ya want. idc.

April 16, 2015

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Sojin

@Rianael: People typically think introverts are antisocial and so on but yeah. From my friend who's crazy about personality traits and me taking psychology, it's different.

"People who are introverted tend to be inward turning, or focused more on internal thoughts, feelings and moods rather than seeking out external stimulation."
Very self-aware
Thoughtful
Enjoys understanding details
Interested in self-knowledge and self-understanding
Tends to keep emotions private
Quiet and reserved in large groups or around unfamiliar people
More sociable and gregarious around people they know well
Learns well through observation
(Source: psychology.about.com)

So yeah, I'm glad you researched about it too LOL.

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Wanton

any job that pays well idc
smart, empathetic but to a fault.
average weight for a person that is 5"6-5"11 is nice
i prefer koreans who can speak korean at an above basic level for cultural reasons and so they can talk to my family properly and treat them accordingly but overall if i come to love someone who is non korean then its whateves.
someone who is mildly introverted and can be straightforward but knows when to be appropriate.

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nindow

someone with a job that has a solid income so that we can have a big nice house to raise a family.

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zigen

[quote=DragonBandit]Jeesh you got some high standards there. A trophy wife that cant be touched OR looked at.... pretty sure that's not a trophy wife that's a divorce waiting to happen.
[/quote]

I gotta set the bar high, you know what they say 'shoot for the stars blah blah'

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fradddd

My crush, duh.

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spireweb

job:soccer player <3
income:any, more or less than me i dont mind
personality: easygoing, caring and loyal
normal to athletic body fat % and a few inches shorter than me
ethnicity: half white and half asian/filipeno
any size as long not past c or under a
whatever rocks the boat
extrovert and passive
I have a strange attraction to soccer girls and french braids and I cant seem to find out why

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Rianael

[quote=Sojin]You're thinking of the wrong kind of introverts[/quote]

There are different kinds now? Also, I was referring to the main choices of the posts before me.

EDIT: I got interested in her/his post and googled my question. This list was fun. So which one.. is the right kind? Imo, being one of these types of introverts, once I get close to someone, my introvert tendencies tend to disappear until I need some alone time again. For the most part this seems true for anyone else I've asked online + irl.

Preference for quiet, minimally stimulating environments
Preference for concentration and solitude:
Rechargeable battery
Thoughtful-introspective
Shy-socially anxious
Artistic-sensitive-creative
Literary-observer
Worried
Lonely-isolated
Loner-alone by preference
Low Energy

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DragonBandit

[quote=TheZigen]they gotta be rich so i can b a stay at home wife who doesn't actually stay at home, I travel the world with my husband's money and he can neither touch me nor look at me, I am his trophy wife.[/quote]

Jeesh you got some high standards there. A trophy wife that cant be touched OR looked at.... pretty sure that's not a trophy wife that's a divorce waiting to happen.

@Reticent Personally I do not care what job or how much my wife makes. Just as long as she has some type of valuable skill/experience/or education.

The 3 main personality traits I look for are honest, faithful and kind. I cant stand having a mean S/O.

Height doesn't matter to me. Weight doesn't matter as long as she looks skinny. I do prefer in shape though since I love to lift.

Ethnicity doesn't matter to me.

Size doesn't matter but I prefer C.

Role in intercourse is interchangeable so that doesn't matter to me.

Introvert I guess?

Depends how sassy. If its to the point where she is rude I would prefer passive.

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iDrinkOJ

I was filling out answers to these questions then I realize I'm just describing the person that is currently on my mind that I have feelings for; not ideal type, if I have one.

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Sojin

[quote=Rianael]Marrying introverts doesn't seem to be a thing lmao.[/quote]

You're thinking of the wrong kind of introverts

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SpearCrusher

Whatever makes her happy
Doesn't matter to me; up to her
Clever, ambitious, charismatic, kind, passionate, romantic, adventurer, artistic (maybe and to a degree)
Around 5'4 or 5'5 at a healthy weight, not too petite, but not too thick
Doesn't matter
B/C
Both
Mix between extrovert and introvert
Sassy

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xFaceIess

To mention a boatload of specifics is difficult. :c
I just want someone that can deal with me. Occasionally I can be difficult. Someone that doesn't mind my stupidity, who likes the stupid/random things I say, who doesn't mind(.. maybe even likes?) my teasing personality. I put up a confident, chill front but i'm more of a stress-prone worry-wart inside.
It'd be awesome if both my hubby and I could make banks and work together, or something.. Heh. OUR money.
.. For some reason, I really like guys with dark hair. Although at the end of the day, stuff like that really doesn't matter. c: I'm the kind of person that would end up liking their physical appearance, etc, simply because it makes them who they are.

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Xreniya

2d
tsundere
cute

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natalie

- it doesn't matter as long as he's happy and it doesn't put his life at risk
- i want to live comfortably, OUR money
- funny, respectful towards others (especially the elderly), doesn't dislike children, eats a lot, speaks english and at least one other language, can read a book, neutral feelings on things that matter
- proportionate and healthy (taller than me which isn't even hard gdi)
- no
- anywhere from 3 inches to 12 inches
- it's going to get boring fast if you're always the same
- i lean more towards introverted so i'd like it if he was somewhere in the middle (more outgoing than me but can still understand how i am the way i am without making fun of me like a jackass?)
- as sassy and passive as a straight male can be

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Rianael

Marrying introverts doesn't seem to be a thing lmao.

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djmaxaaron

[quote=Killeem]umm idc wht job she have..

she can b any race as long as she cute! ! ! !

height umm like 5'0-5'6

weight i sorta like skinny bt sorta thickish still ok idk i grew away from thick girls.

i want like bad girl bt also good cute bt stand yp 4 herself n have attitude n will beat me to a pulp if i cheat U know ? oh ya n she sorta whats the word.. fml.. umm oh ya clingy bt also like ugh i m tired of ur face justin bye for 2 days, ya.

intercourse ,, surprsie me[/quote]

why do you type like that

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Slayinz

@Shir <3 <3 <3

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pinoymystic

uhm i'm not sure what my sexuality is...

but in any case, all i want for my future partner is to be the best friend who's like "you loser!" but is actually really caring. like you know those couples that call each other teasing names, but they're madly in love with each other? yeah, that. also they have to be the most responsible people and work really hard. and are really humble at what they do.

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Killeem

umm idc wht job she have..

she can b any race as long as she cute! ! ! !

height umm like 5'0-5'6

weight i sorta like skinny bt sorta thickish still ok idk i grew away from thick girls.

i want like bad girl bt also good cute bt stand yp 4 herself n have attitude n will beat me to a pulp if i cheat U know ? oh ya n she sorta whats the word.. fml.. umm oh ya clingy bt also like ugh i m tired of ur face justin bye for 2 days, ya.

intercourse ,, surprsie me

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Omegathorion

Her name needs to be Makise Kurisu.

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OnlineMusic

I don't have an ideal or dream wife. I just figured if I find a cool enough girl and started dating her and if all goes swell and we're happy together I would end up proposing.

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ZzXxskyxXzZ

Kindergarten/elementary teacher or nurse
$60k - $120k annually, but is more of a housewife (make less than me)
Has a passion, is good with kids, caring, respectful, loyal
5'5" - 5'8", 120lbs - 130lbs
Korean or White (Nina Dobrev <3)
Size B
Both dominant and subbie
Extrovert
Passive

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GHSNinja

doesnt matter cus ima have a hundred side chicks

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Twilicious

The ideal waifu is the 2d waifu! <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3

Seriously though, I wouldn't mind what type of person they are. As long as they are there to help me up when I am down and can cook some yummy food, then I don't mind at all!

If I had to be picky though...

I would want them to be a neurologist.
I would like if they made as much or more than me.
I would want them to be accessible and compassionate
I would like if they were anywhere from 5 to 6 feet and I don't mind about their weight.
I would like if they were flat.
I would like them to be able to fit either role.
I would like them to be an extrovert.
I would want them to be passive.

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zigen

they gotta be rich so i can b a stay at home wife who doesn't actually stay at home, I travel the world with my husband's money and he can neither touch me nor look at me, I am his trophy wife.

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