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My father is in need for help

So hear me out; my father, being the good guy he is, has joined this group of people that help people on the phone that are suffering from depression and have mental problems. Now there's this girl that keeps calling him, she is crazy as hell, she makes him mad and my dad knows that if he won't answer her and cut the whole relationship completely, she will suicide. The question is, what can he do now? She's cursing him and then crying to him on the phone and she's crazy and she bothers him during the day and during the middle of the night. And she can't be stopped because she will kill herself if my dad won't answer her calls. I'm writing this as she's talking to him and she's punching herself according to my dad, and it's scary. He's suffering from this and just want freedom.

January 14, 2016

8 Comments • Newest first

PashySpirit

Like xronellx said, you need a professional in this situation. People who threaten suicide to get what they want are in severe need of help before they harm themselves and/or anyone else.
I'm honestly a bit disgusted that some people here are saying that she doesn't deserve to live in society. This behavior is beyond her control and is a severe symptom of whatever disorders/illnesses she has. While her actions and behavior are dangerous, what she needs is HELP, not death, as she is a victim. Mental illness is not a joke.

Reply January 15, 2016
XronellX

...you need a professional. Did he sign any contract of some sort claiming anything of fault for this kind of stuff? If not just ask the other groups of people on what to do.

Reply January 15, 2016
Defaulty

suicide watch

Reply January 15, 2016
Ebihara

Call the cops this women doesnt desrivse the right to be in socitey nor is she fit enough. she is a danger to people around her and this is pure harrsements as well as threats. Call the cops get her some mental help and she some how keeps going press charges for mental abuse and making threating statements.

Reply January 14, 2016
juni

kinda sounds like BPD. i knew a BPD person once. an illness like that is extremely difficult to treat, a normal person should not try to. make her see a professional psychiatrist somehow

Reply January 14, 2016
Rondragon123

@killeem but then he's the one to blame... And also he will have to live with the fact that he killed a girl.

Reply January 14, 2016
Killeem

hard subj 2 touch on, but there is a difference between ppl tht want help n ppl that want 2 be spoiled / want attention

theres nothing he can do, nothing anyone can do. only her. so if she wants to off herself bc some1 that has no actual responsibility over her doesnt want 2 talk 2 her on the phone, then let her

Reply January 14, 2016
WhoaMomma1

I'd let "her kill herself". Don't really need people acting like that. Whether it's scary or not, some people are better off gone and let others live at peace. Lololol.

Reply January 14, 2016