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voluntary childlessness is selfish

What do you guys think about people who say things like this?

August 3, 2013

13 Comments • Newest first

SodiumOH

I love my future child, so I wouldn't want it to be born in this world we live in now. </3

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CureSword

I have heard this several times. I personally think it isn't selfish compared to people having kids when they don't want one.

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civfanatics

If anything, it's selfless. You are not contributing to the many problems this world faces by refraining to produce more humans.

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Amuro

If everyone had at least one children, Earth's precious resources would be depleted even more quickly, and we'd have to mass produce more food. Therefore, voluntary childlessness is selfless.

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smalliebiggs

[quote=Gratitude]? i dont see how that can be justified[/quote]

apparently it's selfish because by not giving life (and putting that life before your own), you are putting yourself first -> selfish.
a few silly classmates of mine said this a while ago, and now i think about how untrue it is.

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MatthewDough

I think those people are stupid.

So I guess all those people that practice celibacy due to their religion/practices are selfish?

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Croodle

this is the first time I've heard of this phrase.

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Zoneflare4

Is it when someone uses their age as an excuse to do or say stupid things?

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SoggyToast

i dont know anyone who says that, but I can see why, someone thinking that you want to enjoy your life more independently and not be weighed down by the responsibility to be a parent

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smalliebiggs

[quote=assumptions2]Why is it selfish?[/quote]

I was hoping you could tell me. Too many silly threads, was hoping for one with a deep discussion.

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KamikazeDes

I might not be getting it, but are you saying that me not wanting kids is wrong? I don't care though, since I don't use condoms.

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ClementZ

I think they're damn melons.

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assumptions2

Why is it selfish?

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