Question for your partner/future partner
Hey Basil, I was wondering if you would want a partner that would change FOR you and partly themselves. If they were unhealthy, and they said they were going to change for you, would you like that? Some people like their partners to be independent rather than making you their baby sitters. What do you think?
May 23, 2013
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When will you get your lazy a-s up and do the dishes?
IDC what my partner does as long as she looks good and it doesn't lead me to think she is cheating.
No, I wouldn't like that since they are only willing to change for me. They should change for the better. Being unhealthy isn't a good thing though. I would rather have an independent partner.
One question: Do you love me more than I love you?
...the answer I'm looking for is yes.
@Rationale: just dont .
i find this a homo-relationship problem.
its in many of the news about how hospitals and family-u-cut-your-ties-off-but-try-to-act-like-family-when-not-needed do this sort of crap to them.
I don't want her to change for me. I would rather she change for herself. I want her to do things that are beneficial for her well-being instead of for me.
If I can be a positive influence on someone, then I see no problem.