Could this be considered as mental illness I'm an 18 years old guy. My major problem: I think more about the someone else's joy than my own. ( like if I won a million dollars I would prefer to see my best friend being happy with it than enjoying it myself ). Due to this I am like a super ultra good guy with girls. Ill do whatever she tells me and like dont try to make me say NO to a girl, I just cant ( if she asks me something I can do without killing myself ). I had three girlfriends since im 13 and for all three of them it ended up her telling me this: I never loved you Alex, I just took advantage of you and how ur super cool with me. So this just hurt me inside and now whenever another girl seems to like me, I am really hesitating and th