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So this is random, but I read on imgur or 9gag, that when hugging girls, they love it when you (guys) cup the back of their head.
Can anyone confirm this?

Me being super strange, how does one do it? is it literally just cupping their head?

November 7, 2014

24 Comments • Newest first

NoobCake

This thread is making me cringe

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xoqtprincessxo

Look, it's not hard. There are two kinds of women in this world: those with love handles and those without love handles. The ones without love handles are hopelessly unhug-able, because they don't have handles you can hang on to. The ones who do are the good apples. You hug one of those by grabbing her handles and pulling her closer towards you in order to show your affection.

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xdarkshynobi

lol wtf. If you tryin to hug a female you are talking to, grab her waist, not the ass more of a middle back; make sure she can feel your muscle when she touches any part of you.

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Duzz

pretty much depends on situation, but 99% of the time, no.

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Uonatrik

stay classy, basilmarket

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lukiie

What an awkward thing to do. I can already see it happening, and I can hear the guy whisper "I cherish you" SHIVERS

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fakestories

[quote=Chachi]ima do this to u k[/quote]

i dare u

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Dorks

tha's bf/gf status but also pls no hover hands

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fakestories

socially awkward person asking a physical contact related question to other socially awkward people on a maplestory trading forum

hmmm

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Wordolio

[quote=icemage11]wtf, no. that's just weird.[/quote]

10/10 would cup your head.

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nattl532

[quote=kevin64811]Unless you're in a relationship, please, and I mean PLEASE, never do that. It makes it seem like you're forcing the hug for longer than it should be.[/quote]
really close friends works as well though, like if they're comfortable hugging for more than like 10 seconds, its acceptable

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NonSonoFronz

>Taking anything you read off of 9gag or imgur seriously
>going on 9gag at all
>using imgur for anything aside from an image hosting site

Doing that is really weird if you're going in for a hug... I'd recommend doing that if you're kissing though.

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djmaxaaron

Just hug them. There's no other way to do it..

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KaichouShion

just arm around the other is fine enough

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kevin64811

Unless you're in a relationship, please, and I mean PLEASE, never do that. It makes it seem like you're forcing the hug for longer than it should be.

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glacial

Just dont give hugs lol
hugs are weird

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Elasmobranch

Yeah don't do that.

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ultimo

Like i'm not that socially awkward, I just never give hugs (which is apparently a problem, said by a girl).
and I don't know how to do hugs.... no love from parents </3

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DarkOdor

i read that on 9gag a while ago. i think it just means to cup their head when going in for a kiss

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ultimo

I'm socially awkward
What hugs do girls like the best?

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icemage11

wtf, no. that's just weird.

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Ecyz

If you're already socially awkward, doing that will make you a social outcast

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kayfabe

holy crap who cares everyone likes hugs

and if you don't that's fine too

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