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Just curious what Basil thinks

I'm curious, put your self in my shoes, change the genders of the people I'm talking about if need be. I'm rather prudent when it comes to telling people I love them, I got out of a bad relationship which the girl duped me, via text, after being at my birthday party/get together thing. Relationship before that my gf physically abused me, kicked me, hit me, and put me through a major emotional roller coaster. Now I like this one girl, and she said she liked me when I was with my last gf. The girl I like is now with someone and after sometime they start to change their relationship to an "open relationship". She and I hang out more, we get very flirtatious to the point where we end up kissing. This happens a few more times, she doesn't tell him about me. I end up meeting him for all of 5 minutes. We shake hands, all is good. Next time I kiss her she says she feels guilty and doesn't want to kiss again until she has it all sorted out. She says she feels guilty because it's the same way she and her last bf broke up, over flirting and mixed signals. Recently she seems to me like she's becoming more and more flirtatious with me and just recently she said she would kiss me, if there weren't so many people around. I tried to talk this out with her bf but he wouldn't listen to me. What do you think I should do, or what would you do?