I think I just met my perfect 10
First of all, thank you for all your help about the last girl who I interacted with on the bus 3 weeks ago, and as expected, no response back from her whatsoever, so I got over it and moved on. Meanwhile..
I need help with this girl I met yesterday with my friend. She is my friend's girlfriend's twin sister. We had fun, challenging conversations, and honestly out of 100 girls I've approached since the beginning of this semester, I think I have chemistry with her the most. I've adopted some of the methods from "whatever" to boost up my self-confidence at first, and now I get to the point where I'm numb to rejections, but at same time I feel like something is wrong and most of these girls don't respond back to my texts or calls. So I think I would put aside pickup for a bit, and just concentrate on working my attractive lifestyle and hopefully get this girl I really like.
The problem is she is a senior in high school, and I'm a sophomore in college, plus I don't have a car, so there are gonna be some logistical issues; however, throughout yesterday's conversation, it was suggested by my friend and his girlfriend that I should go to prom with this girl, which will be on April of next year. So all the sudden I just feel motivated and the need to get my acts together, such as my academics, my work, my career, my social skills, my cultural knowledge, etc. By the way, I wasn't born in the U.S., and this is my 6th year since I came here, and before I spent nearly all my time dwelling in textbooks to secure my good grades, and now I finally have this opportunity to hang out with people, especially I just met this girl that I really, really like, I want to give everything I have to make it happen.
So dear basilers, if you got any suggestions on how to "transform" myself within these 5 months before her prom I would deeply appreciate it. In fact, I've already started my rigorous workout program as I wanted to get in the Marines and become an officer after graduating college, plus the girl said I would look real good if I go for the modeling industry so I'm definitely motivated for the physical part, but I'm more concerned about the mental and social part, like shows and movies you guys watch in a daily basis and just anything that I can add to my inventory for conversations, because it sucks when someone say: "Have you seen the latest episode of this show?" and I'm like "No, what is it about?" The person *sigh*.
Thank you.
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[quote=Gmayn]@wilber: Screw plans. Have no expectations and you will not be disappointed. Work on yourself for the benefit of bettering yourself, not as an attempt to win her.[/quote]
I got you, thank you very much!
@wilber: Screw plans. Have no expectations and you will not be disappointed. Work on yourself for the benefit of bettering yourself, not as an attempt to win her.
[quote=Gmayn]I can't imagine dating my friend's girlfriend's twin. Ahhhh
How are meant to help you? You seem to be doing just fine. What are you expecting after one day?[/quote]
Yeah maybe I thought about it too much, but like I said I really don't want to screw this up and want to have a perfect plan that everything goes right, such as my academics, my work, my workout program, and everything to win her heart.
Media talk is still small talk. You should see if you two can have fun together on a date at the mall or aquarium. Theaters don't offer much talk time. Rootin for you.
Step one: Don't date a high schooler if you're in college.
[quote=RJustice]If you're in college shouldn't you just be getting laid in frat parties regardless of your confidence?
We don't have frat parties here, but that's kind of how it goes in our college.[/quote]
Now that's pathetic, to me it sounds like people are just dropping their standards these days and going party hard all night, like it becomes a habit for them or what? What I'm looking for is to develop a set of skills that I can attract women under any circumstances, just like a mechanic that knows how to fix the car instead of just driving it.
But thanks for pointing that out though.
I can't imagine dating my friend's girlfriend's twin. Ahhhh
How are meant to help you? You seem to be doing just fine. What are you expecting after one day?
If you're in college shouldn't you just be getting laid in frat parties regardless of your confidence?
We don't have frat parties here, but that's kind of how it goes in our college.
[quote=TheDStar]'The problem is she is a senior in high school, and I'm a sophomore in college'
In my opinion, that's not actually that far yet.[/quote]
yeah it's not the main concern right now, but I want to make sure everything goes right because I don't want to mock this up again.
obviously you have to creep her social networking pages and find out what she's interested in
'The problem is she is a senior in high school, and I'm a sophomore in college'
In my opinion, that's not actually that far yet.