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September 15, 2013

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Phiz

[quote=yorkies88888]If you're bold: "Because I think you're beautiful."
If you're shy: "Because I need your help with some of this."

@Phiz: Since you're saying dumping her would be the beta thing to do, then be alpha and TALK to her upfront and not be a pushover; you obviously let things go her way most of the time. Don't be like "so I'm insecure since your texting my bestfriend;" be like "I want you to text me more and him less." Done, nothing more. Girls like it when guys know what they want; especially if they use a little force, yet are nice about it. Don't start like abusing her or anything, but have a firm voice. Oh, and your best friend; you need to just punch him in the nuts. For realz... He's not a best friend if he's texting your girlfriend and ratting you out for weed.[/quote]
Solid advice. Thanks

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Koonie

how do I over guy with girlfriend T___T it has been 4 months so far and it still feels crappy. I'm always keeping myself busy but that's not helping. when I meet other guys, I can't help but be reminded of the original guy.

Btw, I found out he had a girlfriend after i fell for him

Reply September 15, 2013
yorkies88888

[quote=civfanatics]@wilber This girl is fond of me, but I cannot reciprocate her feelings. I want to just be friends with her.[/quote]

"So I'm gay."

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civfanatics

@wilber This girl is fond of me, but I cannot reciprocate her feelings. I want to just be friends with her.

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yorkies88888

[quote=wilber]Say "because I don't want to you follow me home later at night, and whatever the issue that exists between you and me, we can get it settled in here." in a playful way. [/quote]

Dude, that sounds hella creepy.

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wilber

[quote=extremespd]if i ask this girl "hey, come sit by me" and she asks why, how should i answer? this is in a jap. class btw[/quote]

Say "because I don't want to you follow me home later at night, and whatever the issue that exists between you and me, we can get it settled in here." in a playful way.

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yorkies88888

[quote=extremespd]if i ask this girl "hey, come sit by me" and she asks why, how should i answer? this is in a jap. class btw[/quote]

If you're bold: "Because I think you're beautiful."
If you're shy: "Because I need your help with some of this."

@Phiz: Since you're saying dumping her would be the beta thing to do, then be alpha and TALK to her upfront and not be a pushover; you obviously let things go her way most of the time. Don't be like "so I'm insecure since your texting my bestfriend;" be like "I want you to text me more and him less." Done, nothing more. Girls like it when guys know what they want; especially if they use a little force, yet are nice about it. Don't start like abusing her or anything, but have a firm voice. Oh, and your best friend; you need to just punch him in the nuts. For realz... He's not a best friend if he's texting your girlfriend and ratting you out for weed.

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Phiz

[quote=yorkies88888]Wow, you're such a beta. Your girlfriend has you WHIPPED dude. Yesterday you posted that weed thread and now this? If you have any man left in you, dump her.[/quote]

That obviously seems like the solution but if I was insecure enough to dump my girl just for texting a guy that seems like an even more beta thing to do. Another big thing is homecoming is next week, and I've already asked her and we have plans. Like reservations with a group for a restaurant and what not. That's the main reason I'm putting up with my girlfriend as much as I am right now

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yorkies88888

[quote=LoveOutLoud]i've loved my boyfriend for around a year now. i finally get to see him in concert next month omgomgomg how should i propose[/quote]

Ooo, GURL. You need to get yourself together. The guy will most likely be like "WTF," then run away from your crazy ratchetness if you propose after a year, at a concert.

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LoveOutLoud

i've loved my boyfriend for around a year now. i finally get to see him in concert next month omgomgomg how should i propose

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yorkies88888

[quote=Phiz]My girlfriend texts my best friend a lot more than she texts me. Should this be a big deal, or..?[/quote]

Wow, you're such a beta. Your girlfriend has you WHIPPED dude. Yesterday you posted that weed thread and now this? If you have any man left in you, dump her.

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Phiz

My girlfriend texts my best friend a lot more than she texts me. Should this be a big deal, or..?

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RandomUsername

[quote=yoguy911]should i use chloroform?[/quote]

ofc dats how u get women

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wilber

[quote=civfanatics]How do I let someone down nicely?[/quote]

Elaborate please.

[quote=Ipoopster]my gf wont let me open the doors to heaven .[/quote]

Build more rapport with her and make sure y'all have strong emotional connection before proceeding to seduction.

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yoguy911

should i use chloroform?

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RandomUsername

how do i get pass @aznseal ego
its like trying to get pass the gates or mordor
@Keane
yes pls

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Ipoopster

my gf wont let me open the doors to heaven .

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civfanatics

How do I let someone down nicely?

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