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A tip/guide for your guys to get out of the quotfriend zoneq

yeye. most of basilers never even had a girlfriend probably, and just got friend zoned, so I'll give some tips to get you out of the friendzone

[header]The "nice guy."[/header]
Ironically, most of the guys who get friend zoned are "nice guys." And most of them aren't even nice, they just fake their personality to get with the girl, you just act really nice in front of her to get with her. So, how do you know if you're being one of those "nice guys"? If you put her as your first priority above all, if you two go out for an expensive dinner, and she's like "let's pay half, half" and you're like "nah I'll pay for the whole thing", basically if you put her on a pedestal. Don't do that, the girl you like will only think of you as a really good friend, nothing more. Don't be her doormat, don't do everything for her, she can do things for herself. So don't be the "nice guy" who does everything for her, that doesn't mean become a d0uch3, just be nice, but not too nice.
[header]Clingyness[/header]
Being clingy is a big no-no for girls. It's a major turn off. So how do you know if you're clingy to a girl? If you call/text her 24/7, if you constantly ask her where she is, if you always want to be with her, when you spam her with obnoxious comments like "can you hangout with me?" "wanna go watch the movies?" constantly. So don't be clingy, let her live she has a life, don't be so nosy and wondering every detail about her life.
[header]Confidence[/header]
Let's admit it, 90% of basilers don't have confidence with girls at all. And you guys then approach to my first point, of being a "nice guy." and then you rage about how girls only date d0uch3s and not nice guys, it's not like girls like being treated bad, they just like guys with confidence not some guy that's a major wuss. So, if you like a girl just confront her about it, she might like you back.
[header][b]Warnings[/b][/header]
Don't tell the girl you like about liking them [b]unless[/b] they show it back, because usually telling a girl you like them, and if they don't like you back it'll ruin your friendship.

August 30, 2012

14 Comments • Newest first

Laker1294

[quote=TehRaygunicorn]Tips for getting out of the "friend-zone":

-Just grab the girl and kiss her
-get wasted, grab her and kiss her; get wasted, have her kiss you; deal with repercussions of drunk hook-up after
-do not be a close friend, but rather stick to her peripheral circle of friends
-don't make yourself too available
etc, etc, etc.
There's no such thing as the "friend-zone", it's just a term coined by men who lack confidence and are not straightforward with their intentions when building a relationship with a woman. If you want a woman, let her know that. Don't pretend to be nice just to get with her, cuz that boat won't sail my friends[/quote]

This would only work if she's interested..if she's not..awkward..

Reply September 2, 2012
WolfGrey5s

yeh you can meng.

Reply September 2, 2012
Fiercerain

This should help..
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NSG97zCOlyo

Reply August 31, 2012
WolfGrey5s

[quote=Buddgie]What's with this attitude that everyone on basilmarket is a loser? Most of the time the people who say that are "worse" than the people they are addressing.[/quote]
Because most of them are, most basilers are socially awkward in school, and don't know how to communicate with girls.

Reply August 31, 2012
TehRaygunicorn

Tips for getting out of the "friend-zone":

-Just grab the girl and kiss her
-get wasted, grab her and kiss her; get wasted, have her kiss you; deal with repercussions of drunk hook-up after
-do not be a close friend, but rather stick to her peripheral circle of friends
-don't make yourself too available
etc, etc, etc.
There's no such thing as the "friend-zone", it's just a term coined by men who lack confidence and are not straightforward with their intentions when building a relationship with a woman. If you want a woman, let her know that. Don't pretend to be nice just to get with her, cuz that boat won't sail my friends

Reply August 31, 2012
enver90

uhmmmmmmmmmm im a mapler and basiler o.o, im good with the girls o.o, i hang out with the pot head girls, cheerleaders, and pretty much evry1, same with the guys 2... im friends with pretty much evry1 and pretty much every sophomore knows me....

Reply August 30, 2012
WolfGrey5s

[quote=lettucing]i need a clingy guy lol[/quote]
No, you don't.
You probably never dated a clingy guy.
They're obnoxious a.f.
My friend was a clingy guy and his girlfriend got really annoyed of him and broke up with him.
Clingy guy is someone who will constantly call you and text you to the point where you get so annoyed with him that you just want to break up with him.

Reply August 30, 2012
lettucing

i need a clingy guy lol

Reply August 30, 2012
WolfGrey5s

[quote=PinkBlurr]Did you get these tips from Jenna Marbles?
[url=http://www.youtubecom/watch?v=3VXXXX9iVPI]Nice Guys Don't Finish Last[/url]
[url=http://www.youtubecom/watch?v=FuTcLJybqLM&feature=plcp]Things Boys Don't Understand[/url]
[url=http://www.youtubecom/watch?v=CtuJAs7hSaA&list=UU9gFih9rw0zNCK3ZtoKQQyA&index=3&feature=plcp]Things Boys Don't Understand Part 2[/url][/quote]
No, I don't watch her I get it from personal experience
@imnomerchant
It's the same kinda, when you're in a relationship with a girl, it's not much different as when you two liked each other.

Reply August 30, 2012 - edited
Chema

[quote=StewieFG]aka You[/quote]
My post was intended to state a fact, I'm sorry for all the butthurt it have caused you

Reply August 30, 2012 - edited
HotMess

it still blows my mind when people dont know how to communicate with females

Reply August 30, 2012 - edited
ImNoMerchant

Isnt this guide for when your NOT in the friend zone.
Yet the title says how to get out of the friend zone. o.o

Reply August 30, 2012 - edited
Piggable

wow dis shud b stickied

so hepful

It's almost impossible to get out of the friend zone. Once you're in, you're never getting out, buddy.

Reply August 30, 2012 - edited
Chema

This friendzone fiasco is only used by pompous egocentric losers who think every single women should fall in love with them
pathetic

Reply August 30, 2012 - edited