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So in school, I sit next to this girl for three classes. I don't like as in boyfriend/girlfriend, I just want to be her friend. Before I really got to know her, I would make jokes about her and a few friends would laugh. Now since we talk a bit in class, I think we've gotten a bit closer than at first. When we were talking and she said something mean to me, but in a jokingly way, my friend said, "Wow, I thought you were his friend, but you're mean to him" also in a jokingly way. Then she said that she wasn't my friend because I'm mean to her. Since I'm stuck sitting with her for the rest of this school year, I don't want it to be miserable, so I want to become her friend. I know I may sound pathetic or thirsty, but can you guys give me any tips on how to become more friendly, what to talk about, and stuff like that? Thanks a bunch.

February 21, 2014

5 Comments • Newest first

Nashi

First step: stop making fun of her.
The rest should come naturally.

Reply February 21, 2014
LuckyNinja

I stopped caring.
No literally, like I just act optimistic and it kinda works out itself.

Reply February 21, 2014
NoCoply

Don't make fun of her. Just talk to her I guess make those jokes on occasions.
Or keep doing what you are doing. Who cares?

Reply February 21, 2014
dopeazn

damn. men have become so beta they willingly friendzone themselves nowadays.

Reply February 21, 2014
MyKarma

You're so mean.

Reply February 21, 2014