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Shouldn't girls be considered players?

I mean, since guys ask girls out, a guy decides how many girls he wants to date by choice. So he basically makes a full conscious decision to date many girls making him sleuthy.Girls on the other hand, GET asked out and could say that "It's not I want to go out with a lot of guys but they keep asking me out!"

So basically, why is it ok for guys to date many girls but not ok for girls to date a lot of guys? Shouldn't it be the other way around?

May 25, 2014

11 Comments • Newest first

trashed

What if I told you that gender does not mean anything in regards to who dates more or has more sex.

Reply May 25, 2014
SirLelouchR2

[quote=Fetishes]wow chat section is having a lot of girl problems lately[/quote]
are you new around here

Reply May 25, 2014
Fetishes

wow chat section is having a lot of girl problems lately

Reply May 25, 2014
billabong79

These days anyone can be a player. Sometimes even the player gets played.

Reply May 25, 2014
Missy

it goes waay back to the 1800s (victorian era) when men were taught to be dominant, just like in most natural environments, and women were taught that they weren't supposed to enjoy sex and that they were simply baby machines. men were viewed as high in power and prowess simply for just being men, their sex gave them automatic authority. this is the basic configuration for essentially all biospheres; male=superior, women=inferior.

women had an extremely lesser authority than men and did not have any rights, benefits, or freedom because of male entitlement. there would be men who had multiple wives to make babies and pass on their genetics to, and on the side prostitutes just for the sexual pleasure. while if a woman had sex with more than one man she would be redeemed as a loose woman and substantially have no value in the eyes of society. a woman was considered to have only very few things to achieve in her lifetime and that is a husband and a child, however a man it would be to have as many wives as they can. if a woman has a husband and a child, they're SUPPOSED to be doing that, but when a man gets 20 wives, another man can get 30 wives.

then came religion to say, "it's okay for you to have sex and enjoy it, but your virginity is still your upmost prioritized asset." in religion it was believed that virgins were the ideal body for breeding, which is scientifically untrue.. BUT, this belief was applied to both men and women. sadly due to the already set standards that men can sleep around while women can't, not many people enforced this ideology on men than they do on women.

this kind of belief that men can sleep around while women cannot has carried on for the last few centuries, basically.

Reply May 25, 2014
dexslayer

[quote=LostMyJob]can you please clarify what a 'slueths' is[/quote]

A sleuth is a detective, unless the OP was trying to say $Iut

Reply May 25, 2014
fradddd

It should be okay for anybody to do whatever they want in that aspect because it's none of your business.

Reply May 25, 2014
LostMyJob

[quote=Kazno]He means 'S(l)ut'.[/quote]

are you sure he didnt mean sloths

Reply May 25, 2014
Kazno

[quote=LostMyJob]can you please clarify what a 'slueths' is[/quote]

He means 'S(l)ut'.

Reply May 25, 2014
RandomUsername

[quote=LostMyJob]can you please clarify what a 'slueths' is[/quote]

To search for or discover.

Reply May 25, 2014
LostMyJob

can you please clarify what a 'slueths' is

Reply May 25, 2014 - edited