Why do people like dating nice girls This has been on my mind for a while. Is it actually a desirable trait for somebody to be nice? If you actually think about it, if somebody acts nice toward you, don't they show the same kindness to the majority of people they meet? In most cases, you're not special at all. To me it seems like a shroud that they hide under to appear enticing. Of course, this is a bit of a generalization, but I don't really care. Edit: It seems that I have articulated my point poorly, seeing the way people have commented. To clarify, I don't find assholes or rude people attractive, but I don't see the appeal of people who are JUST nice. For example, when people are asked about their ideal type, they might respond with &qu