My attitude towards a girl This is about my attitude to a girl. She's been looking at me lately and the choice for me is whether to be open or closed to her. We first started liking each other almost a year ago. Many things have happened, many time periods. But she's been mean. When I greeted her, she used to either ignore me, or say something like "I don't want to talk to you." She hurt me by getting another boyfriend. (It was never really official but still) She was so rude to me. I remember some times she bullied me and made fun of me. Even those time periods when she liked me, she was never proactive in trying to start a relationship. Never initiated a conversation, and never continued a real conversation. I remember a period
Should I move on? She said no. There are two mentalities in my mind: love her, and don't love her. I have to choose one. Not loving her makes me feel life is unpurposeful, in that I am not used to being interested in other girls. It feels wrong. It used to be like, her, and only her, and I'm really not used to not having a purpose like that. I also feel that she used to like me, but I waited too long, so I fear that she still has feelings for me. She still looks at me. But loving her makes me feel depressed, it saps the fun out of my life. I seem to have complex personal issues; everything becomes uninteresting because nothing I do affects my goal. I seem to get low self confidence and esteem, making me not be active in conversations, makin
I was sure she liked me but she said no to hanging out Hey basilers, So there's this girl that I liked for so long, and I was so sure she liked me too. I asked her over facebook, which might've been a bad idea, but I said "do you want to hang out together", she said why, then she said not really "myname". I'm confused, because I was so sure she liked me, does this definitely mean she doesn't like me? Now that she said no I can only focus on hints that she would not like me, but I'll try and think of some hints that she does like me. She's always looking at me. One time we stared at each other for ages in PE. All her friends are gossiping. I remember even hearing parts of her conversation, like "he's so cute" an
Why do I not make a move? There's this girl that I like, and I'm confident that she likes me too. But its been months and months but nothing major has happened. Lots of people know that there is something between us; anything on facebook gets 20 likes by random people. I've talked to her on facebook before, but no long conversations in real life. I'm always trying to find the reason why nothing has happened. I'm quite shy. We look at each other all the time. I'm too scared to say something - when she is near, I would say something.. but she is always with friends, and I'm too shy. Some of my lack of confidence might because of low self esteem. I'm confused and i don't really understand anything. Sitting here at my computer I feel that I cou