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[quote=luffyrubber]Bro, I completely agree with you. I think me and you are into the same lifestyle here. People should just attempt to go for a kiss on the first date. It conveys confidence regardless of rejection. You're on the date because you're interested in the person as more than a friend and you want to see where it goes. You're not on the date to just do friendly stuff. That's what friends are for.

I think if you're not going in for the kiss, then you're playing it too safe. You might be scared, but if you play it too safe, then it will most likely end you up in the friendzone. Take chances. High risk=high reward[/quote]

Ahh that's the phrase I was looking for 'playing it safe'. Exactly.

@above I agree bro

[quote=TrueAtheist]You don't need 3 frickin dates before you kiss someone, it's just a kiss omg. Like @dimo just said it's not even that uncommon for people to have sex after their first date or get 'invited in'.

If you just "get to know them" for 3 dates that's functionally equivalent of just getting to know a friend... if you're actually interested in the person then you have to act like you're interested and that [b]they are more than just a friend.[/b] Why would you purposefully just do something you can do with anyone?

Dates are for flirting, being touchy, and setting the grounds for intimacy.

EDIT: Everyone should check out this channel, this video talks about what you should do on a 1st date http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PDT2IS_G5qg[/quote]

Bro, I completely agree with you. I think me and you are into the same lifestyle here. People should just attempt to go for a kiss on the first date. It conveys confidence regardless of rejection. You're on the date because you're interested in the person as more than a friend and you want to see where it goes. You're not on the date to just do friendly stuff. That's what friends are for.

I think if you're not going in for the kiss, then you're playing it too safe. You might be scared, but if you play it too safe, then it will most likely end you up in the friendzone. Take chances. High risk=high reward

Haven't even tried bro <3

hell naw.
:c
I would only consider such a thing if I really really [i]reaaaallly[/i] liked him.
and even then, I wouldn't do it.
scary..

[quote=ImWada]I see dating as a way of getting to know a person. After you get to know them well enough, then start getting all romantic? 2nd/3rd date seem like the best time I guess.
1st is definitely too soon.

[NEW ACCOMPLISHMENT] I just spelled definitely without using auto-correct! [/quote]

Completely agreed. That's what's going on with the girl I'm dating right now.
@BBD Just because you know a person doesn't necessarily won't be awkward or something of the sort while being with them. Depends on the circumstance between the two anyway.

I'd kiss before the first date bwahahahaha

Yes I have.

I will always kiss on first date, when that is the surprise.

[quote=ImWada]I see dating as a way of getting to know a person. After you get to know them well enough, then start getting all romantic? 2nd/3rd date seem like the best time I guess.
1st is definitely too soon.[/quote] You should know a person before dating.
If you know them via them being your friend then you know a lot about them.

Friend introduce them to you well you and your friend should talk before or after about the girl (or guy).

Also we live where mostly everyone is on Facebook or Twitter or Instragram (or any of the combination) so you can learn a lot.

[quote=ImWada]I'm only a Sophomore in high school[/quote]
But maybe we are age difference since you are Grade 10. In high school you don't follow the same steps as the real world (and I recommend not to).

@pinoymystic: You're face isn't showing in my picture! So I couldn't see your mustache, that clearly means it was you!
[url=http://cuteoverload.files.wordpress.com/2012/04/slothlove.jpg?w=560&h=422]moar of you.[/url]

[quote=Casey]But... I found this photo of you kissing a guy!
http://oi47.tinypic.com/xumth.jpg[/quote]
But no! This is the real me!
http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lth7wrVIki1ql49deo1_400.jpg
I never did anything like that!

[quote=remembrent]I'm 18. And I'll stick to my preferences, thank you.

Edit. And I've known couples who didn't kiss until their wedding day. So cute and so much more special.[/quote]

Actually most of the time it's awkward and weird. There's a TV series on this.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xp-jZyzQSms

Unless you're insanely religious there's no reason to limit yourself like that, there's nothing romantic about it, it's just dumb and pointless.

[quote=pinoymystic]No, because I'd be too nervous. -blush-[/quote]

But... I found this photo of you kissing a guy!
http://oi47.tinypic.com/xumth.jpg

[quote=TrueAtheist]Oh yeah well that's understandable since you're still in high school, the older you get the less of a big of a deal kisses become so they become more common to do early in dating.

@remembrent lol how old are you? that's not being old fashioned that's just being unreasonable, a couple of months before you kiss your boyfriend? there was never a time in human history when people waited that long...[/quote]

I'm 18. And I'll stick to my preferences, thank you.

Edit. And I've known couples who didn't kiss until their wedding day. So cute and so much more special.

[quote=ImWada]@TrueAtheist: I don't know. Maybe because you find them attractive, but you know nothing about their personality?
Or maybe I'm just not good at it. I'm only a Sophomore in high school, and it's always been date #3 that gets all romantic. Perhaps it works differently for adult relationships?
And it's usually [i]months[/i] before there's any kind of sex in a high school relationship...[/quote]

Oh yeah well that's understandable since you're still in high school, the older you get the less of a big of a deal kisses become so they become more common to do early in dating.

@remembrent lol how old are you? that's not being old fashioned that's just being unreasonable, a couple of months before you kiss your boyfriend? there was never a time in human history when people waited that long...

NOPE, sorry. And if he tried to, I would avoid it. I guess you could say I'm pretty old fashioned, I would give a quick outline of do's and don'ts before going on the date and he needs to respect my wishes. I'd only let a guy kiss me if he was my boyfriend of at least a couple of months.

[quote=ImWada]I see dating as a way of getting to know a person. After you get to know them well enough, then start getting all romantic? 2nd/3rd date seem like the best time I guess.
1st is definitely too soon.

[NEW ACCOMPLISHMENT] I just spelled definitely without using auto-correct! [/quote]

You don't need 3 frickin dates before you kiss someone, it's just a kiss omg. Like @dimo just said it's not even that uncommon for people to have sex after their first date or get 'invited in'.

If you just "get to know them" for 3 dates that's functionally equivalent of just getting to know a friend... if you're actually interested in the person then you have to act like you're interested and that [b]they are more than just a friend.[/b] Why would you purposefully just do something you can do with anyone?

Dates are for flirting, being touchy, and setting the grounds for intimacy.

EDIT: Everyone should check out this channel, this video talks about what you should do on a 1st date http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PDT2IS_G5qg

At my age more often than not sex is on the cards after the first date from the girls I go on dates with.

[quote=ImWada]I thought the rule was the 3rd date o.o[/quote]

Hell no.. If I was a girl and a guy hadn't kissed me by the 3rd date I would stop seeing him, that's ridiculous. They're not going out as friends they're going out because they should be romantically interested in each other.

3rd date is way too long.

I'd give her the D first date.

feed or feed caise om the n8b

[quote=Mademoiselle][url=http://sphotos-a.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ash3/579176_10151126439806239_64317236_n.jpg]how do i look like i'm 12[/url][/quote]

aww why so cute?

If the person is ok with it, then ya . Which usually happens so, all is well ^_^

Seems way to soon.
No.

[quote=AdventureClub]You look like you are.[/quote]

[url=http://sphotos-a.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ash3/579176_10151126439806239_64317236_n.jpg]how do i look like i'm 12[/url]

[quote=renaflor]Depends.

If I knew him for a long time and [b]really[/b] liked him, then yes.

But only on the cheek. [/quote]

lol omg

No, because I'd be too nervous. -blush-

only unless the date went horrible then i would, yes most likely

[quote=Chema]It is not paranoia, it is prevention
HPV is way more common than most people think
The first date is to start knowing each other, and so are the consecutive dates[/quote]

Sorry but that's just a dumb mindset, if I'm going on a date with a girl I'm not going to assume she has HPV, that's called a buzzkill.

[quote=TrueAtheist]Er, if someone is that paranoid they shouldn't have accepted the date in the first place.[/quote]
It is not paranoia, it is prevention
HPV is way more common than most people think
The first date is to start knowing each other, and so are the consecutive dates

Why not, right?

When I have my first kiss with the girl I want it to be when she is having doubts that I like her or is being jealous or thinks I'm cheating.

[quote=Chema]Or you don't feel like getting HPV/Herpes from someone you don't trust and don't know where his/her mouth has been[/quote]

Er, if someone is that paranoid they shouldn't have accepted the date in the first place.

[quote=TrueAtheist]Obviously. Only beta wusses wouldn't kiss on the first date.

Going in for the early kiss does a lot of things, it shows her you like her that way, even if she rejects it she'll respect you for having the confidence to go for it.

There's no point waiting, it's just a kiss, the first date is when you're suppose to do it unless you're 5 years old or you fail with women.[/quote]
Or you don't feel like getting HPV/Herpes from someone you don't trust and don't know where his/her mouth has been

Probably on his hands, cheeks or forehead though. Save the lips for the 2nd date I assume that I already know the guy for awhile since I don't go on dates with random guys that ask me out.

Obviously. Only beta wusses wouldn't kiss on the first date.

Going in for the early kiss does a lot of things, it shows her you like her that way, even if she rejects it she'll respect you for having the confidence to go for it.

There's no point waiting, it's just a kiss, the first date is when you're suppose to do it unless you're 5 years old or you fail with women.

It depends. If it was a short date, then probably no, but if you were with them for a good amount of time and everything seems to be going well then why not

Edit: Nevermind, totally misread.
Boy friend - sure, a kiss on the cheek.
Boyfrien - of course I'd kiss him.

hell yeah. my mouth would destroy them.

if i liked him then obviously what am i 12

Depends.

If I knew him for a long time and [b]really[/b] liked him, then yes.

But only on the cheek.

I'm not settling for a cup of tea and some crackers.

[quote=shadowm4ster]im too fab for them so n0000[/quote]

And that is the story of forever alone.
OT: On the cheek, at least.

Hell yeah. I always go for the sex on the first date.
srs.