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How to get popular, attractive girl?

So recently I became friends with this attractive, popular girl. We message a lot on facebook and text on phone. So a friend of mine (also attractive, popular girl) was curious about how I was doing, so she read my texts. She told me my conversation is normal and boring. Her advice was don't be so easy since girls like hard to get. However another friend (male friend that is mutual friends with me and both girls) thinks I'm doing good. In his opinion, since the girl is making effort to start conversation with me and comes visit my desk, that's a positive sign so he claims I don't really need to do much. So what is the better advice?

June 29, 2015

17 Comments • Newest first

helloalice

if she doesn't like you for who you are, then she doesn't deserve you. If you have to change how you txt/msg, then shes not worth the effort!
don't ever change yourself for anyone!

Reply June 29, 2015
Elleee

[quote=Gyroscope]She's gonna get bored of you eventually because online messaging/texting will soon get dry and it isn't really an effective way to build a relationship (whether it be a friend or significant other).
Take it to the next step and hang out with her even if it's in school, you need the eye to eye and physical contact. That's how bonds are developed. I suggest start asking her if you wanna chill at your place to play MapleStory or something. Say this and guaranteed she'll come over to your house, "You want to know a good place to get your pants on sale? You can get them 100% at my place ".[/quote]
This is actually very true. In texts / messages you will run out of things to talk about unless you hang out in person. And don't do the maple story part plz n thx

Reply June 29, 2015
fradddd

[quote=MountainJew]Do the exact opposite of what @Fradddd has done.[/quote]

"Gr8 advice 8/8 m8" - IGN

If you wanna get female friends, follow what I've done, if you wanna get a girlfriend, please don't.

Reply June 29, 2015
SeanSecksYou

If you don't want her I'll take her

Reply June 29, 2015
Omegathorion

[quote=Gyroscope]I suggest start asking her if you wanna chill at your place to play MapleStory or something.[/quote]
10/10.

On topic: In your text conversations, get her to start talking about herself. Then all you have to do is sit back and listen. Easy conversation, and everyone loves talking about themselves.

Reply June 29, 2015
Bob11111

[quote=RitoPls]Asian? [/quote]

Yep, every single person in this story.

Reply June 29, 2015
calabari

@Bob11111: You gotta learn how to keep interest bro.
[url=https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_PuzHKWYahw]Ima just drop this here for the advice and luls[/url]

Reply June 29, 2015
RitoPls

Asian?

Reply June 29, 2015
Bob11111

[quote=Rondragon123]That's how relationships work. And after he'd "finish" with her, he can start finding his next target.[/quote]

I don't think I have the ability and desire in me to do such a thing, especially if getting a girl takes so much effort.

Reply June 29, 2015 - edited
Gyroscope

She's gonna get bored of you eventually because online messaging/texting will soon get dry and it isn't really an effective way to build a relationship (whether it be a friend or significant other).
Take it to the next step and hang out with her even if it's in school, you need the eye to eye and physical contact. That's how bonds are developed. I suggest start asking her if you wanna chill at your place to play MapleStory or something. Say this and guaranteed she'll come over to your house, "You want to know a good place to get your pants on sale? You can get them 100% at my place ".

Reply June 29, 2015 - edited
Rondragon123

[quote=Shir]do you want her b/c she's popular and attractive?

jesus christ[/quote]

That's how relationships work. And after he'd "finish" with her, he can start finding his next target.

Reply June 29, 2015 - edited
Bob11111

[quote=Shir]do you want her b/c she's popular and attractive?

jesus christ[/quote]

She caught my eyes from her attractiveness yes, but she has amazing personality too.

Reply June 29, 2015 - edited
Shir

do you want her b/c she's popular and attractive?

jesus christ

Reply June 29, 2015 - edited
GiraffeBreeder

Make a move before it's too late.

Listen to the girl.

Reply June 29, 2015 - edited