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How do you feel about guys that are older then you online, who wants to date you? And I mean like 6-10+ years older.

My friend who's around 19 years old is "in-love" with this guy she just met on an online some game. He's like 30 years old. She prefers older men, I guess. Anyway, he says he works at Toshiba, and going into business and stuff. (She's currently aiming to go for Business also) I'm like worried and all, thinking he's probably going to lie to her and just do stuff.. since she wants to visit him already, and wants to see his place and stuff. She told me I'm not mature to understand how she feels, which really offended me, I am worried about her safety. She said she's not stupid to get tricked, and that she trusts him a lot, and knows he isn't lying. They already web cam with each other I'm guessing, and has talked to each other through video call. But I don't know, she got mad at me and stuff so I just stomped away since it pissed me off. She said she never felt this way before, and that he's the one.. but yeah.

Sorry for the ramble. But what's your thoughts? :S

November 23, 2011

3 Comments • Newest first

Segumisama

A guy i knew solely online was about 28 i think? and he wanted to date me when I was 16. He never actually did anything, he just said he loved me and wished I was older a few times, and kept his distance. I miss him.

Reply November 23, 2011
muffmallow

There was a guy who was 6 years older than me who wanted to date me when I was 18 (I only knew him online) and THAT creeped me the hell out even though we did have a lot in common. Yeah, she shouldn't do it, you are only trying to be a good friend too

Reply November 23, 2011
blazi4ever

Well since they video cammed and all, that's a huge step closer to trusting him I guess.

Though it depends on how long that the both of them know each other. If they've been together for like, under a year I wouldn't say that's being close.

Reply November 23, 2011