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which is more admirable?

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either or, you can't really say one is better than the other and should happen exclusively. Both are needed. Those that support society and those that try to get it further. I admire any person t

Someone randomly defamed me for no reason

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well he's already won the game by getting you emotionally upset over him hovering his cursor over a set of colored pixels so whatever defame you might give him you're the loser in this situa

I hate my life

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@nightshade: Having been in a relationship before means nothing whatsoever. It doesn't increase, decrease or establish value. (though then again if someone dates 20 people in 10 months you'd

BasilMarket is Dead but Who is Still Alive?

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@zoneflare4: Weird LOL. I came here cause I tried to help someone find their basil ID. Geez it changed!

its me the lonely guy who draws for fun u can request

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Huh, I like how you give them all different poses! :O would love to see what you draw me as. Could do a sketch art trade too to make up for the effort lol!

I hate my life

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"Every single one of my friends has been in a relationship" Ok but how long did they last? Are they ongoing? are they healthy? is there a longterm plan? Having a relationship really doesn&

Weight loss tips?

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low fat is absolute utter nonsense. Don't fear the fat. Don't necessarily fear the carbs. Fat fills you up QUICKLY. Don't buy non-fat or low-fat products. 10% fat greek yogurt fills ya

Once a cheater

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Strongly depends. Some people will always be cheaters, some never learn, or never learn to care. Some may entirely turn around. As for deciding whether or not to date someone who cheated? It depends

BasilMarket is Dead but Who is Still Alive?

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@zoneflare4: @zombieoverlord: Oh my god y'all STILL on here? WHAT? Did I miss anything? and shouldn't it be "undead", zomb?

What happened to Basilmarket?

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I've been on and off here for the past 3 or 4 years I think, haven't paid all that much attention anymore. Last I was most active the auction function was still around I think :x oof. @lig

Toxic relationships

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It's not women altogether mind you... I've never raised my hand against my husband. Clearly it's an abusive relationship. It's sadly not as easy to get out of one as you'd t

Girlfriend039s Pregnancy Scare Story

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Well good luck with that. Make sure she'll take another test soon just in case. Also you may want to talk to her about the whole thing over, given you don't want kids RIGHT NOW, so you agree

Do you compromise

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Depends on what it's about but I tend to compromise. It's the best when both parties are happy. Though in general what I want vs what my partner wants (or my friends/family) is usually the s

Keep to yourself

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It's kinda interesting how you put yourself with the rest of the world and try to exclude w/e person (or people) this is directed towards. The people you complain about wouldn't bother you

Have the race wars officially begun?

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Isn't it the same with BLM as with feminism and all that fun stuff... the dumbest, most extremist people are those that scream the loudest and are the most aggressive and they become representati

hello boys and girls

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Nope. Not even yesterday during our rare skype calls. She knows it without me telling her.

A hopeless fool

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@upcomingnerd: Easier said than done. The majority of people is too --ignorant/naive/closed-minded/uneducated/"stupid" to figure out what makes them happy. Humans are great at adapting, but

What happened to Basilmarket?

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Hell, I don't know. After several months (or a year, or I don't know) I came back to basil in July for 2-3 days or something, just remembered it again today but I probably won't be here

What to do if work overpaid me

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I strongly suggest you let them know. Dishonesty in such matters can really screw you over. You can't exactly claim you didn't know cause you should be well aware that you didn't work e

Examples where lying is beneficial?

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@zoneflare4: only in the short-term, never in the long-term in a healthy, sustainable way. Especially in relationships the truth is 100% needed. Lying does NOT get you everywhere and it certainly does

what is your favorite fruit and why

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Do I have to pick one...? I like many... - pomegranate (love the process of peeling and taking out the seeds, LOVE the flavor) - star fruit (always a great, rare treat. I love the texture and how ju

A hopeless fool

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you're merely 19, wait until your mid to late 20's first. It will get so much better. Teen relationships easily break and you can't really expet to find the love of your life around tha

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Changes by mood, but I'm generally ALWAYS interested in Final Fantasy (been addicted to Brave Exvius and Mobius lately), reptiles (got 3 total now, love em all <3), plants (grew lemongrass fro

What did you eat lately? Food adventure thread

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We recently tried cauliflower crust pizza, since we're 95% cutting out flour, sugar and starches. First time we tried it it was ok, hubby was CRAZY for it, but 2nd time was the best so far. It�

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@seekingcuteguys: You shouldn't -need- one at all whatsoever. Wanting is fine, but a boyfriend should be a nice addition to an otherwise complete and fulfilling life, not a tool to reach exactly

Are you happy with your body?

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@benchpresser: If I'd spend my time I spent on basil on exercise then I'd have exercised a whoopin 10 minutes within the past 2 weeks. Damn! I've been outdoors for hours daily lately so

Coworker finally found out about my crush

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@fradddd: I've been inactive for quite a while here I think. Maybe a year? Maybe two? I don't remember. I just know that it's been spotty but I haven't been on here for so long it

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Definitely get counseling. "needing" a partner isn't normal, plus even if you do have a bf in the end, neither you nor him will be happy (since it'll be a relationship of "nee

Racism thread

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if you discriminate anyone at all whatsoever whether it's a specific group or everyone you're a butthole and you should be ashamed of yourself

Are you happy with your body?

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Don't like it at all whatsoever. I wanna be more fit but can't seem to find the time/energy lately. But hubby loves it so (sadly?) that doesn't put me in as much of a rush.... eek

Skype Group

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I'm curious but at the same time I don't use skype much, if at all, and I don't trust it lol!

Coworker finally found out about my crush

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well good luck with it and holy, you're still on basil lol!

Lonely this 4th of July, are you too?

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I spent my 4th of July pulling weeds in front of the house so you probably had more of a blast than I did!

Goals To Be Accomplished

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Hmmm, I mostly wanna reach my ideal weight in the next 2 years (I'm in no rush), hopefully within the next year figure out a garden plan for our front yard.... most of my goals are quality-of-lif

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I like to allow myself a lil rest or nap when I got done with something big. Also like @taisuke I have a cheat day but usually every 7-10 days, nothing too bad.

Name something you regret

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As cliche as it sounds, i regret giving a crap. There's a lot of people that never deserved my care or attention but I wasted it on them anyway out of blind loyalty. Lesson learned, though, so maybe

Discuss your experiences with different social sites

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I only use facebook (currently have all accounts deactivated for a month though) and it's a lot of whining and drama usually but I'm PRETTY picky about who I have on it so it's not too bad for me (

Your last song

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Probably [url=https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KHw7gdJ14uQ]Boy with a Coin (Iron and Wine)[/url] while there's other songs that match my personality more or that may be more up-beat this is a song I l

How good do you think you look?

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Ugly, but apparently pretty enough to get a perfect husband lol

music you liked as a kid vs music you like now

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Honestly not much difference, aside from the fact I broadened my taste due to being able to have access to the internet.

Work Ethic or Intelligence?

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work ethic cause no matter how intelligent you are if you don't put it to good use it's pointless.

What interests you the most?

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Sience-y stuff, recipes/food videos (especially asian), art tutorials, sewing/crafting tutorials, lizards, plants (inside as well as outside, I love growing Mangos from pits lately, before I did like

Not doing well these days

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@ILikeAnime: I sadly have no experience with tortoises but being the owner of a bearded dragon (and after roaming around forums for that as well) I've come across way too many reports of people not t

I Think I Am Gay

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you don't, you live life and eventually fall in love. Is it a female? ok. Is it a male? ok. who cares? what difference does it make? Be happy and done.

Depression and insomnia

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I do have my days but I usually don't think about the past but rather the future. Having my hubby around calms me down a lot though, I usually talk to him about what bothers me and eventually we snug

Do any of you basilers remember me?

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I do, and what are you doing back on basil? xD

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1) hubby (need my daily morning kiss and make sure he's happy) 2) pets (Bearded dragon and Betta), cat and guppies are hubby's responsibility 3) breakfast 4) tea if we're talking items only 1) t

are guys allowed to have white phones?

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da hell? I think guys can have white phones too. on that note, my phone is purple (Xperia Z)

Quality of Everything Decreasing?

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2 options... A) your mind is playing tricks on you, the brain usually makes past experiences seem much better than they originally were B) crap really is deteriorating. i feel the same way actually,

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Killing time on basil, I did a deep-clean of the house yesterday, I've got nothing to do, I'm at a total loss. may start drawing again soon and gonna go on my daily plant-watering stroll.