WWYD: The girl/boy you met/like is in a relationship.
This may be relevant to me or it may just be something I'm curious about, disregarding that I just want to know what you would say.
Say you met someone who seems really compatible with you. Lots of things in common, good looks, and seems to be reciprocating some sort of attraction.
That's a lot to assume! So things are going well until you realize that s/he has a boy/girlfriend.
What is your course of action?
I'm just curious because it's a tough situation, ne?
October 10, 2010
16 Comments • Newest first
what would you do, that's what it means.
[quote=Gratitude]have their partner accidentally fall down 10 flights of stairs and crack their skull open[/quote]
uhh.... yeah... no hahaha
[quote=Eeveepony]Get over it and move on really. Not going to wait for someone like that whose unavailable.[/quote]
This ,or just do what I want because thats just what men do.
Id stay friends with her since we have so much in common
[quote=lawlerskates]I would wait. But at the same time I wouldn't wait in such a way that my other options are limited, knaw mean?[/quote]
yeah I knaw mean.
Do what I did when I found out my biffle (back then wasnt) had a bf.
Become best friends with them
It's already happening to me. I'm just looking for someone else.
I would wait. But at the same time I wouldn't wait in such a way that my other options are limited, knaw mean?
Make her like me more.
Get over it and move on really. Not going to wait for someone like that whose unavailable.
Walk up to her boyfriend, beat his ass, then simply ask her "Him or me?"
99% effective.
I've been in this situation before I didn't do anything about it, was miserable for a while, and eventually we grew apart and stopped speaking.
What you don't wanna do is try and steal her away from him. Let's say by chance you get snag her from him, what's stopping her from getting snagged by another guy who wants her?
But the best thing to do in this situation is to just move on or just wait it out. Just be her friend for the time being.
If I felt a connection with him, I'd still wait till he'd break up with his S/O.
Well if I knew I wouldn't be asking right? Besides, I think different people might say different things.
I'd be all "well that sucks. Time to either wait or move on" isn't that the logical answer?