Wise men dont hit women
If a guy is getting attacked by a girl the smart thing to do is the try to get out of the situation without hitting her back. Why? Because men are stereotypically (pretty much are) physically stronger than women. We all know this. So swallow your pride and get away from possibly getting screwed by the justice system. I'm not saying I believe it's morally wrong to hit women, I'm saying it's not smart to hit women. Guys need to learn to protect themselves from society. Think of it this way, if you saw your mom upset and she starts slapping your dad. DO you want him to smack her back and get sent to jail or do you want him to be smart and get out of the house until things cool down. We all know your mom won't be going to jail for laying a smack on your dad. Controversy makes the chat section more interesting. Hate me if you want, just giving real advice.
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Throwing something recently in the news into the discussion:
Stephen A. Smith on the Ray Rice incident: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IDzWvHhgTrY
He got suspended a week for those comments.
Fact of the matter is, there IS a double standard when it comes to issues of violence, as Missy above is alluding to. Is it fair that men are expected to just stand and "take" all abuse thrown at them by a woman? I don't think so.
Do I agree with such a view? Yup. Would I say that in public or in front of my class? Nope. Fact of the matter is, as much as I agree with the gist of what Stephen A. Smith was saying there (basically, "women, don't provoke a man or do something that will lead to them hitting you), I know expressing such opinions in the wrong places will get me in trouble. Now at the same time, am I implying that women who provoke men to anger "have it coming to them" and are "getting what they deserve"? Not at all. However, if you poke a bear with a stick, it will bite you. That's just the reality of it.
TS is correct in what he is saying. However, I personally do not agree with it, though it is true in society today.
[quote=Missy]this may be your opinion on equality, but equality is far from visible in the eyes of the justice system.
he's not saying that THIS is equality, he's saying, "if you don't want to go to jail, don't hit a woman."
as eff'd up as it sounds, it's true.
he's stated clearly that he doesn't believe that it's morally wrong to hit women, but it's just the smartest choice to. smartest=/=morally right.
a man can get charged with r*pe or abuse with the littlest evidence shown. is he bigger than her and does she have a couple bruises? boom 10 years in the bucket.
there's thousands of cases where a man is falsely accused of domestic violence..
[url=http://www.shrink4men.com/2011/08/16/man-awarded-852000-in-civil-court-after-ex-wife-falsely-accuses-him-of-sexual-abuse/]proof 1[/url]
[url=http://nationalparentsorganization.org/blog/20842-simon-boswell-acquitted-of-false-abuse-charge]proof 2[/url]
[url=http://www.ocregister.com/articles/irvine-371011-lee-false.html]proof 3[/url]
i agree that women aren't princesses, but they virtually are in terms of the law.. they have more laws protecting them than the crap that comes out of your ass.[/quote]
Your post makes my post sound so good xD. You actually understood what I was trying to say!
Likewise, wise women don't hit men
Just get a nice rear naked choke in or a swift Joe Rogan spin kick if she continues to own you up
a person has the right to defend themselves when they are feeling threatened, especially if they feel that their life is at risk.
a person assaulting another person should know that there would be consequences for said action.
[quote=Missy]this may be your opinion on equality, but equality is far from visible in the eyes of the justice system.
he's not saying that THIS is equality, he's saying, "if you don't want to go to jail, don't hit a woman."
as eff'd up as it sounds, it's true.
he's stated clearly that he doesn't believe that it's morally wrong to hit women, but it's just the smartest choice to. smartest=/=morally right.
a man can get charged with r*pe or abuse with the littlest evidence shown. is he bigger than her and does she have a couple bruises? boom 10 years in the bucket.
there's thousands of cases where a man is falsely accused of domestic violence..
[url=http://www.shrink4men.com/2011/08/16/man-awarded-852000-in-civil-court-after-ex-wife-falsely-accuses-him-of-sexual-abuse/]proof 1[/url]
[url=http://nationalparentsorganization.org/blog/20842-simon-boswell-acquitted-of-false-abuse-charge]proof 2[/url]
[url=http://www.ocregister.com/articles/irvine-371011-lee-false.html]proof 3[/url]
i agree that women aren't princesses, but they virtually are in terms of the law.. they have more laws protecting them than the crap that comes out of your ass.[/quote]
Yeah, I was more or less aware of that, my posts were just me venting in a way anyways. I also know not all women are like that but it's scary how ignorant the masses can be. At least for me, I found happiness with my waifu.
[quote=otamegane]You know what, I am a feminist and I am offended by your post, OP. If a woman is hitting me and won't stop even after asking her to, I will slap her to the ground with the back of my hand without mercy. Doesn't matter if they are weaker, those who hit others should be prepared to get hit themselves. That's what equality between genders is. If I were some physically fit athlete(I'm not) and some male dweeb that was weaker than me kept hitting me, I would have all the right to retaliate. However the thing you're suggesting, OP, is far from equality, but the concept that all women are princesses and are allowed to treat men like trash without consequences, which most feminists and white knights nowadays have confused with equality.[/quote]
this may be your opinion on equality, but equality is far from visible in the eyes of the justice system.
he's not saying that THIS is equality, he's saying, "if you don't want to go to jail, don't hit a woman."
as eff'd up as it sounds, it's true.
he's stated clearly that he doesn't believe that it's morally wrong to hit women, but it's just the smartest choice to. smartest=/=morally right.
a man can get charged with r*pe or abuse with the littlest evidence shown. is he bigger than her and does she have a couple bruises? boom 10 years in the bucket.
there's thousands of cases where a man is falsely accused of domestic violence..
[url=http://www.shrink4men.com/2011/08/16/man-awarded-852000-in-civil-court-after-ex-wife-falsely-accuses-him-of-sexual-abuse/]proof 1[/url]
[url=http://nationalparentsorganization.org/blog/20842-simon-boswell-acquitted-of-false-abuse-charge]proof 2[/url]
[url=http://www.ocregister.com/articles/irvine-371011-lee-false.html]proof 3[/url]
i agree that women aren't princesses, but they virtually are in terms of the law.. they have more laws protecting them than the crap that comes out of your ass.
maybe
just maybe
a female shouldnt be taught that its ok to hit a male when her emotions are in turmoil
http://imgur.com/gallery/wJUey
[quote=Plenair]Hm, looks like I forgot to mention this: If the girl could kick your ass or fight you legitly, then defend your ass. :v
If it's a normal girl easily kneeing you in the balls, why the hell are you not lifting bro.[/quote]
huh better start doing those testicle pushdowns then
[quote=Schweinsteiger]Had to stop here[/quote]
That first line was a joke. Get it? Because feminism is a joke.
[quote=Plenair]Hm, looks like I forgot to mention this: If the girl could kick your ass or fight you legitly, then defend your ass. :v
If it's a normal girl easily kneeing you in the balls, why the hell are you not lifting bro.[/quote]
You obviously have no idea how sensitive the balls are or how hellishly painful it is to get hit there, regardless of how fit you are.
[quote=Alaia]Wise people don't resort to violence, period.[/quote]
i think there are instances where violence (or physical force) is necessary
[quote=baddenboy12]I'm not the most unreasonable guy in the world, but there are those who reason alone will not reach. It is for that reason that I draw boundaries when it comes to this whole equality between genders thing. We all know that women are weaker than men. Unless extreme exceptions need to be made, I think we men should show a little restraint. For example; Im walking along the street when I trip over a female's shoes and she starts beefin' with me (happens all the time in my country). She starts wailing on me after I apologize, but its nothing I can't take. I just continue on my way while she continues to bombard me with punches. I wouldn't strike her down until I start to feel lasting pain in any area that she punched. Once I do, she will hastily get Tiger Knee'd (Sagat style) in the face.
My point is we should want to obliterate females as soon as they lay hands on us, we should show some restraint and use the strength we have that they weren't genetically gifted with to bear with them until we feel they might put health and/or our lives at risk.[/quote]
For me, it's more of a question of if I was actually in the wrong. For example if I say something or do something that made a woman very angry, then I can take some punishment, but only enough to make up for what I did. Something small shouldn't entitle her to kneeing me in the balls multiple times for example. But if someone just randomly attacks me, I'd at least ask for a reason and if I don't get one, then I'll assume she's looking for a fight so no restraint. And it won't just be for self defense either, i just hate self entitled people like that who thinks they can do whatever they want.
[quote=Plenair]I see it like this:
[b]Why would you need to fight against something weaker than you[/b].
DansGame[/quote]
I'm not the most unreasonable guy in the world, but there are those who reason alone will not reach. It is for that reason that I draw boundaries when it comes to this whole equality between genders thing. We all know that women are weaker than men. Unless extreme exceptions need to be made, I think we men should show a little restraint. For example; Im walking along the street when I trip over a female's shoes and she starts beefin' with me (happens all the time in my country). She starts wailing on me after I apologize, but its nothing I can't take. I just continue on my way while she continues to bombard me with punches. I wouldn't strike her down until I start to feel lasting pain in any area that she punched. Once I do, she will hastily get Tiger Knee'd (Sagat style) in the face.
My point is we should want to obliterate females as soon as they lay hands on us, we should show some restraint and use the strength we have that they weren't genetically gifted with to bear with them until we feel they might put health and/or our lives at risk.
[quote=Plenair]I see it like this:
[b]Why would you need to fight against something weaker than you[/b].
Lets not be misogynist or feminists here, lets be real, average guy is stronger than the average girl by a good amount, that's just biology right. If a puppy, kid, or old person started to hit you would you feel inclined to reverse spin kick them in the neck? "IDGAF, if a girl hits me I'll hit back" [i]oh yeah you're being real tough and clever[/i] "they want equality so they get punches to the bewbs". That's the same kinda logic like "they deserved to get sexually assaulted for dressing like that", just because they want one thing doesn't mean they want that thing. Or how about this: "IDGAF, if a 5 year old hits me I'll hit back" [i]because reasons[/i] "they don't want to be treated like little kids so they get punches to the face". So basically I assume you're all okay with wailing on kids, old peoples, and puppies. Ya'll wanna beat this thing up: [url=http://cdn.cutestpaw.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/11/cute-puppy-l1.jpg]Cute AF[/url], because it bit you. No I am not comparing a girl to a little puppy, I am comparing a weaker entity compared to another entity with another entity that would also be weaker than the same entity when compared with. [b]I AM UNREASONABLE[/b]
[b]BECAUSE REASONS[/b].
I could care less about gender, if they're weaker than me by such an amount, I don't feel inclined to hit back. Yakno what they call those kinda people? [b]Bullies[/b]. You know who were bullies? [b]Nazis[/b]. Nazis hit girls and things weaker than them, so you're basically a nazi.
[b]BECAUSE REASONS[/b].
If you need to defend yourself from your average girl because she's hitting you, [i]omg lelelelelel y r u not lifting[/i]. Go hit the gym you pansy.
Btw, hitting =/= [b]attempt to murder your ass with a knife[/b]. Why? Because actual reasons.
"Omg, if a girl tries to hit me like! like! like! like if she had a knife and tried to [b]stab[/b] me, I would knock her ass out because I am a giant hardcore super buff marine that is pro MMA and filled with manliness and equality" [b]BECAUSE REASONING[/b].
DansGame[/quote]
Unlike animals, women are mature enough know exactly what they're doing when attacking someone. But hey, good job trying to put women on the same level of dogs.
If a woman were to come at me I'd break her.
A problem with defending yourself against women is that if you do, you get sent to jail for it. But Women can lay a smack down on us and be perfectly fine. I think that those who fight should be prepared to be fought against. (thinks of code geass)
Wise men don't hit women.
They hit ON women.
On topic:
How about just don't hit anyone in the first place?
You know what, I am a feminist and I am offended by your post, OP. If a woman is hitting me and won't stop even after asking her to, I will slap her to the ground with the back of my hand without mercy. Doesn't matter if they are weaker, those who hit others should be prepared to get hit themselves. That's what equality between genders is. If I were some physically fit athlete(I'm not) and some male dweeb that was weaker than me kept hitting me, I would have all the right to retaliate. However the thing you're suggesting, OP, is far from equality, but the concept that all women are princesses and are allowed to treat men like trash without consequences, which most feminists and white knights nowadays have confused with equality.
If women want equal rights they better expect to get equal lefts as well
I don't see why people are so restrained to hitting women. They want equality right? I know this girl who was one of the leaders of the school club for women's equality and she punched a guy in the face, I can't remember her reason but i remember he didn't even talk to her before, and he punched her back and the school called the police. He was the only one who got in trouble.
honestly without lying, if a woman ever lay a finger on me with the intention of physically harm me ill knock her ass out , no hesitation, a woman don't him a man, and a man shouldn't hit woman, hell nobody is supposed to hit another human being, even tho i do some MMA and im 6"4 for 218lbs i wouldn't hesitate to knock her ass out just for saying lol
it's not worth going to jail for your pride.
If a woman keeps punching my face with the intent to kill me or I see a woman slaughtering innocent people right in front of me, what do I do?
[quote=xtripled]There's a difference between restraining her and beating her to the ground, ahem ray rice. If you can restrain her then, do that. However, if the woman is using deadly force/has a weapon, feel free to do whatever it takes to stay alive.[/quote]
I'm all for restraining, but if I get kneed in the nuts, all hell is going to break loose.
That's why you should always set ground rules. If I was to ever hit someone then they were probably a close friend or enemy. Someone familiar enough to exhaust physical effort for. Therefore, since they're so friendly with me, they should already know that I'll hit them, and they can hit me.
I think it's more of a point where you hit a women and how much you gonna hit em. O-O"
Your advice is cool and all, but in general... wise people shouldn't hit people at all.
Wise women don't hit men (or women) to begin with.
In my opinion if someone starts hitting you, regardless of gender, you have every right to defend yourself which may include hitting them back.
There's a difference between restraining her and beating her to the ground, ahem ray rice. If you can restrain her then do that. However, if the woman is using deadly force/has a weapon, feel free to do whatever it takes to stay alive.
[quote=Gaosaurusx3]i sort of agree, but if the women keeps hitting me even after i walk away, after i tell her to stop, and after i warn what would happen...someone gonna get a hurt real bad.. :l[/quote]
Yeah it's an exception when you feel your life is in danger.
i sort of agree, but if the women keeps hitting me even after i walk away, after i tell her to stop, and after i warn what would happen...someone gonna get a hurt real bad.. :l