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Do you wish you never lost?

We all get crushes, infatuations, lusts, likes, attractions, and sometimes even love.
Well i'm just wondering is there someone out there, that you wish you never lost?

Some girl (for u guys) or some guy (for u girls) that was just more than pretty and intelligent? Like someone really fun, who you really enjoyed being with all the time.

Is there someone you regret losing? That maybe right now you might be in a different relationship, or with someone else, and you still think back? Wishing you had never lost that person? Maybe wishing that you never met that person, cause life would be easier right now.

Just wondering basill

May 19, 2012

8 Comments • Newest first

Deciduous

well i'd like it if my current thing worked out
otherwise i think anything that i "lost" wouldn't have worked well in the first place

Reply May 20, 2012
Nashi

Wouldn't that be kinda idiotic or at the least quite sad? If people seperated then it was for a reason. It just wasn't meant to work, something just made it fail. Whatever it was - somebody screwed up, life tore them apart, big argument...

Once you actually find the person that's worth it then you won't lose them. That's what I think
No matter how bad the arguments might be, both of you will mutually work on solving it, ya can overcome anything together.

Don't cry over what's lost... Look forward to what you will gain
Live the present, not the past..

etc etc. xD

Reply May 20, 2012
Holyjens

My best friend and also classmate (female), on who I had a crush, died in a car accident 2 years ago.
I really wish I had never lost her...

Reply May 20, 2012
iLickWalls

your on basil bro, so you cant like yourself to much...

Reply May 20, 2012
NonSonoFronz

Nope.
Without losing her, I wouldn't be the person I am today.

And I really like who I am. (Besides, we are still really good friends and she said we'd hook up towards the end of Senior year ;D)

Reply May 20, 2012
iLickWalls

No, I like to lose

Reply May 20, 2012
swaznman

i think its really easy to confuse infatuation and love.

What do you think about this.

You love/infatuate someone. You see them with another guy/girl.

Jealousy occurs, that's natural.
but if you loved them, wouldn't you be happy for them because you know they're happy with that person?

Or would you try to ruin the relationship to get him/her for yourself?

Reply May 19, 2012
Keey

usually anyone between ages 10-16 experiences infatuation rather than "true love"

Reply May 19, 2012