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Is my anger justified? Please help Hi there. So i am in a kind of shitty situation. This will probably be a long post but i need your help. I want to know if my anger is justified and just your thoughts. So i have been seeing this girl for about 6 months. We are not in an official relationship but neither are we just friends with benefits. I really liked her when i first met her and she really liked me. Things started out well, but my attraction for her just kind of fell. But i stayed in it for some reason. She really wanted me to make her my girlfriend, but i just couldn't. We fought a lot because of it. I tried breaking up w her quite a few times, because i felt like i was really hurting her, as you should be with someone who really cares

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need serious help on cheating ex-girlfriend okay so i broke up w my ex of 2 years about a month ago. she got into a relationship right away with a new guy. Asides from being a lame girlfriend she cheated on me multiple times. Okay so heres the deal. Shes been messaging me while dating this new guy. I know i shouldnt have responded, but sometimes i have. I have not seen her in person since the break up, and we have just texted and called. Recently ive been telling her to stop talking to me, cause its wrong and shes emotionally cheating on her boyfriend. She has been telling she wants me back and wants me to sleepover at her house. So the question is, because i really do not like cheating, should i forward the messages of her trying to get me

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need help on positive living okay so i just need some reassurance on what to do. or maybe i just need to tell someone some of these things so i feel better about myself. regardless just read please and help if u can. i was in an unhealthy relationship on and off for almost 2 years. i was cheated on 2-3 times early on in the relationship and still stayed like a fool. She told me every time she did it, but cried and stuff and i just stayed like an idiot. If it helps Im 22, shes 20 atm. Anyways there was no trust in the relationship and as the relationship went on, I think she stopped physically cheating, but she still got really close to guys, and i would catch her flirting with them at times. Things like this broke down the trust more and mo

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Do you wish you never lost? We all get crushes, infatuations, lusts, likes, attractions, and sometimes even love. Well i'm just wondering is there someone out there, that you wish you never lost? Some girl (for u guys) or some guy (for u girls) that was just more than pretty and intelligent? Like someone really fun, who you really enjoyed being with all the time. Is there someone you regret losing? That maybe right now you might be in a different relationship, or with someone else, and you still think back? Wishing you had never lost that person? Maybe wishing that you never met that person, cause life would be easier right now. Just wondering basill

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experienced lifters come okay all you weightlifters/bodybuilders/powerlifters/oly lifters I have a question for you, that pertains to my workout first question, what is personally more tiring/taxing for you? a day of heavy deadlifts or squats. (full squats, thighs break parallel) secondly....should i do my bb row/t-bar row set after squatting or deadlifting i do my barbell rows (pendlay style or mark rippetoe style, off the ground each time, with back parallel to floor) and i do my t-bar rows right after bb rows (t-bar rows in corner, all free weight) Now don't tell me to have 1 special day for my back, im doing those 2 back workouts either after squatting or deadlifting thank you, your responses are valued

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experienced lifters come okay all you weightlifters/bodybuilders/powerlifters/oly lifters I have a question for you, that pertains to my workout first question, what is personally more tiring/taxing for you? a day of heavy deadlifts or squats. (full squats, thighs break parallel) secondly....should i do my bb row/t-bar row set after squatting or deadlifting i do my barbell rows (pendlay style or mark rippetoe style, off the ground each time, with back parallel to floor) and i do my t-bar rows right after bb rows (t-bar rows in corner, all free weight) Now don't tell me to have 1 special day for my back, im doing those 2 back workouts either after squatting or deadlifting thank you, your responses are valued

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let me share this w/ you Hi, I just wanted to talk to everyone on basil, and i would like your thoughts and responses. Recently i have been very depressed. My dad does hardcore drugs, but I don't see him too much, thankfully My sister is in a state of immaturity, being very disrespectful to my mom. My mom is getting old, and is still loving and trying to support her 2 failure of kids. A month ago, i broke up with my 1st ever gf, we were together for 3 years. All my friends are just about to transfer after 2 years of Community college. I just found out i want to do biochem, and i have wasted 1 year. So i have 2-3 years left in community college I stopped smoking the green after 4/20, it was making me really depressed. (like it just wasnt fun

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tehe im lonely yeah ive been kind of depressed. a month or 2 ago i broke up with my 1st gf ever, we lasted 3 years, im 20 years old atm i wanted to be single and have fun, and i couldnt see myself with her forever, or being happy forever Now im single, ready to mingle, and i really like this girl at my work She's chinese, and super FUN, and cute and sexy. not ur average chinese girl I didn't like her before when i was with my gf, but i did think she was cute, and i was normal around her. Now that i like her, IM SUPER AWKWARD, i cant even talk to her anymore, and im silent around her. She must know that i like her, cause i stare a lot, and im sure she likes me as well (ive seen some hints and flirts) so i hope im right im depressed cause i r

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tehe im lonely yeah ive been kind of depressed. a month or 2 ago i broke up with my 1st gf ever, we lasted 3 years, im 20 years old atm i wanted to be single and have fun, and i couldnt see myself with her forever, or being happy forever Now im single, ready to mingle, and i really like this girl at my work She's chinese, and super FUN, and cute and sexy. not ur average chinese girl I didn't like her before when i was with my gf, but i did think she was cute, and i was normal around her. Now that i like her, IM SUPER AWKWARD, i cant even talk to her anymore, and im silent around her. She must know that i like her, cause i stare a lot, and im sure she likes me as well (ive seen some hints and flirts) so i hope im right im depressed cause i r

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Opinion on Dubstep Well before you comment, i'd like you to listen to this song you have probably heard it before, its pretty mainstream/popular i think Now here is my background information, i like trance, house, electronic, i just don't really like dubstep So this my opinion on the song...0:42-1:05 is my favorite part, and 2:12-2:55 that uprising beat of house/trance i dont know, its just awesome Then when the dubstep drops, im just kind of ehh, i wish it would drop a housebeat or some epic uprising trance. Well i dont mind the dubstep, i just don't really like it Does anyone feel me on this? That sometimes u hear a trance/house song, and then the dubstep drops, and you're like awww.... Or do you guys all love dubstep?

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Opinion on Dubstep Well before you comment, i'd like you to listen to this song you have probably heard it before, its pretty mainstream/popular i think Now here is my background information, i like trance, house, electronic, i just don't really like dubstep So this my opinion on the song...0:42-1:05 is my favorite part, and 2:12-2:55 that uprising beat of house/trance i dont know, its just awesome Then when the dubstep drops, im just kind of ehh, i wish it would drop a housebeat or some epic uprising trance. Well i dont mind the dubstep, i just don't really like it Does anyone feel me on this? That sometimes u hear a trance/house song, and then the dubstep drops, and you're like awww.... Or do you guys all love dubstep?

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Just ended my 3 year Hey basil, just trying to share some personal information for your responses. About 4-5 days ago, i ended my 3 year relationship. i ended it friday night. well, here are my reasons for doing so. There was nothing really wrong with the girl. i met her in highschool, started dating mid junior year, and stayed with her for 3 years and 1 month. She was my first girlfriend. She was not my first love, ive liked a bunch of other girls before, and liked them for a long time, but they either never liked me or just ended up hurting me. This girl treated me right, she always slept over my house, im 20 atm, we basically got so accustomed to living together. i'd say 3-6 days of the week were spend at my house. i broke up with her be

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Just ended my 3 year Hey basil, just trying to share some personal information for your responses. About 4-5 days ago, i ended my 3 year relationship. i ended it friday night. well, here are my reasons for doing so. There was nothing really wrong with the girl. i met her in highschool, started dating mid junior year, and stayed with her for 3 years and 1 month. She was my first girlfriend. She was not my first love, ive liked a bunch of other girls before, and liked them for a long time, but they either never liked me or just ended up hurting me. This girl treated me right, she always slept over my house, im 20 atm, we basically got so accustomed to living together. i'd say 3-6 days of the week were spend at my house. i broke up with her be

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Do you ever feel like this? Sometimes i just feel stupid. i am 20 years old going to a community college, living with my mom and sister, in a 3 year relationship w/ gf, and working part time (15-25 hours a week) at whole foods. Well i messed up in highschool, which happens to a lot of ppl i think. But now i'm in community college, been in it for almost 2 years, and i already wasted 1 year of it. Now i am making up for it, so next quarter im taking stats, basic (highschool) chemistry, and general psychology. Well at my workplace, there a lot of people my age, and i assumed most of them are in my situation as well. Most actually don't even go to school. Well i met one coworker who is 22, already has a bachelors from UCLA in environmental econ

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Do you ever feel like this? Sometimes i just feel stupid. i am 20 years old going to a community college, living with my mom and sister, in a 3 year relationship w/ gf, and working part time (15-25 hours a week) at whole foods. Well i messed up in highschool, which happens to a lot of ppl i think. But now i'm in community college, been in it for almost 2 years, and i already wasted 1 year of it. Now i am making up for it, so next quarter im taking stats, basic (highschool) chemistry, and general psychology. Well at my workplace, there a lot of people my age, and i assumed most of them are in my situation as well. Most actually don't even go to school. Well i met one coworker who is 22, already has a bachelors from UCLA in environmental econ

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