need serious help on cheating ex-girlfriend
okay so i broke up w my ex of 2 years about a month ago. she got into a relationship right away with a new guy. Asides from being a lame girlfriend she cheated on me multiple times.
Okay so heres the deal. Shes been messaging me while dating this new guy. I know i shouldnt have responded, but sometimes i have. I have not seen her in person since the break up, and we have just texted and called. Recently ive been telling her to stop talking to me, cause its wrong and shes emotionally cheating on her boyfriend. She has been telling she wants me back and wants me to sleepover at her house.
So the question is, because i really do not like cheating, should i forward the messages of her trying to get me back to her boyfriend? it says she wants me back and will break up w her current boyfriend and wants me to sleepover her house. I would never talk to her again if i went through this route, regardless im doing my best to cut her out of my life.
Or is it really not my place and should i not even bother, and let him find out through experience what kind of person she is, "He will eventually get cheated on by her, shes cheated on everyone of her boyfriends.
please voice out your opinions and help me out
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be a homie and let the boy know. I respect you
Depends if your reason for telling him is a good one and not to be spiteful. Most likely though, its best for you to cut communication.
Forward the messages brotha.
Honestly; if you know the guy she's dating I'd go and tell him myself what she's been up too >.< I have no sympathy for people who go out of their way to cheat on the person they're with multiple times...the girl needs a reality check =_=
Girls cheating are very different from guys cheating. Sorry to sound a bit sekkist but it's biologically true. Girls cheat because they want to connect emotionally. The guy they're with isn't giving them anymore but they don't want to be the azzhole that breaks up so she cheats. Either they'll break up with the guy after they found someone or the guy break up after finding out she was cheating. If she breaks up, she'll explain that they're not connected emotionally; she won't say she found someone. And if the guy breaks up because he caught her cheating, she'll justify her cheating by blaming the guy for not giving what she needs. Either way, the guy cannot win.
Guys cheat because they want sekks, period. Any guys cheat for other reasons is lying or in denial.
Step one: Watch http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Other_Woman_(2014_film) and take note of plans
Step 2: Duplicate events of the movie, e.g. friending the guy, finding out who else she cheats with, prepare to take revenge in w/e level you feel appropriate.
Step 3: Write events into a story and promote a movie based on The Other Woman but with genders reversed
Step 4: ?
Step 5: Profit!
@CantBeStopped: Then I hope you don't find someone you're really into and then have them suddenly cheat on you :'/
@CantBeStopped: How about we just not cheat ? Or, what's the use of them being in a relationship if they're going to cheat ? Just be single bruh.
Hook up with her best friend intentionally/ obviously when they are in a vicinity together then dead your ex.
It seems like you haven't cut her out of your life completely yet. And yes, it is not your place to do anything regarding her persona of a cheater.
If i were you I wouldn't get back with her, you broke up for a reason and she's already dating another dude, I would send him the msgs,
I've no sympathy over people who choose to cheat on their loved ones.
It completely ruins the idea of what love should mean &ruin's the person's views on their next relationship.
I personally would forward the message to her boyfriend because who wants to be cheated on &left feeling heart broken?