Is this love? part 2 (famous thread continued)
Here is part 1 if you haven't read it: http://www.basilmarket.com/forum/1984451/
[b]Maplestory paragraph(Have to put this in so my thread can stay in this section/It's truely about maple because I met her from maple):[/b]
[i]I was following comments they were like orders to me. Many have been asking me if she uses basilmarket. The answer is she doesn't. That is why I'm posting here freely. We still play maple together of course and recently she cubed and got the giant mp potion chair but I failed to get anything good. We decided to cube my unique overall for fun and after couple of cubes it became random skills which I just plan to keep and to sell the overall instead. As for bossing, she died while we were in pap due to lag. Pap i fail exp for our levels anyway. Gained one level these past few days which is quite long for level 168 to 169 but I did it. Shout out to Pureshoota who is quitting his corsair. He is one of the most godliest corsairs in GMS. search him on basil[/i]
[b]What I did with the her[/b]:
I seriously kept thinking of her, I just want to hug her while we talking on the phone. I do like her and I'm sure its a strong crush. To me I feel she thinks me as a little brother thats why she hugs me and talks to me but she often complains to me about her boyfriend so I wasn't too sure if she wanted me to comfort her there.
I went to her house to hang and I admitted to her that I had a crush. She said that it was cute and we were pashing for like 2 mins straight. (I was in heaven)
She said I have a boyfriend, I rather you as a good friend not friends with benefits etc. She told her boyfriend about it (I don't know why she did) and the boyfriend said you're just a little kid to me so I'm leaving you alone and if I ever did anything like that again he would smash me.
She doesn't find it awkward but I do. She said that she will be my friend forever as a promise and told me not to think of her in a love relationship way. I really cried inside and felt so shattered.
What do you guys recommend I do now? I really like her and I want to try my best to make this work. I would even get bashed by her boyfriend for all I care. When we were pashing it seemed as though she liked it, I'm pretty sure of it she just was regretful. The option of fighting for her is tough. I stand absolutely no chance against fighting her boyfriend but if that is my only choice then I'm happy to do it.
Thanks for reading this long thread. The comments I received really affected my decision making. Please don't be afraid to give your opinion. The more the merrier and the more knowledge I get
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Lets all link her to this thread.
jk
Smash you? are you kidding? with the power of love you cant lose. jk
but seriously if you really want something and need tto fight for it, theres no chance youll lose.
[quote=Akatsukii]Bad kisser... meh
You guys telling me to give up because you think she is trying to play me. It's nothing like that I promise you guys. She is kind, nice, caring and extremely beautiful. I don't want to lose this chance to be with her, she has so many problems with her boyfriend. I will tell her that I am the one for her. Two years difference is okay.
I'm planning to walk to her house (like 40 min walk) just to talk to her. I hope it gets through. Thanks for support guys <3
I'll tell you how it goes in part 3.[/quote]
She has already said she doesn't see you as a boyfriend, just as a 'Little Brother'.
What don't you get?
Bad kisser... meh
You guys telling me to give up because you think she is trying to play me. It's nothing like that I promise you guys. She is kind, nice, caring and extremely beautiful. I don't want to lose this chance to be with her, she has so many problems with her boyfriend. I will tell her that I am the one for her. Two years difference is okay.
I'm planning to walk to her house (like 40 min walk) just to talk to her. I hope it gets through. Thanks for support guys <3
I'll tell you how it goes in part 3.
@smileekid: Agreed.. If she thought of you as a "little brother" then she wouldn't tell her boyfriend about you guys making out (pashing).
@ TS; Just wait for the right time, see what happens. Good things come when you're patient.
Yeah, its pretty confusing that you would french kiss with her and she clearly said she only wanted to be friends with you. I would rather stay away from her if she does something wrong and the boyfriend wants beef lol
[quote=kizz123]Ask Her if she's DTF[/quote]
LOL
This.
This girl is obviously mental..She makes out with you then tells her boyfriend about it. Girls don't make out (Pash) guys for no reason then turn around and say lets just be friends. My advice is move on she is at a point in life where her boyfriend isn't being the MAN she wants him to be.
So that's it that's all. You're like another doll that she can play with, like a toy, but she has zero romantic attachment to you.
If you like being considered a harmless little kid/gay brother then by all means keep pining away for her attention futilely.
I say try your hardest to just move on. If I were you I'd try to even break off the friendship. It'll be hard, but it really sounds like she was leading you on. It's not healthy for you to keep crushing on a girl you won't have. And this might sound harsh, but you won't ever have her.