Cheating on my Gf, help T.t
I have a 3 years and 6 months old girlfriend, we have a great time and love each other a lot.
Recently, this girl at my university who has a crush on me has been wanting to hang out with me.
I'm not that pretty so I was pretty flattered and curious about the situation. Now, each time i'm with her I feel like I want to be with her and get down to it, BUT i really love my girlfriend and I DONT want to cheat on her . Each time I get home I feel utterly disguted with myself, feeling like worlds most
horrible person in the world. I always thought I would handle these situations easily and have no problem into rejecting a girl, but seems like I cant help it .
More info: I have only hung around with the other girl, nothing has happened, but I can't get her off my mind ..
More more info: I love my girlfriend deeply and we have a very commited and serious relationship.
I would like some useful opinions, I'm aware most people will say "Pick one", but I'm actually looking for an answer to make me think it through more wisely. Thanks
( fyi , I'm 19 )
13 Comments • Newest first
Do what your heart says. Pretty much what your telling yourself on the inside.
Whatever girl you want to dedicate your heart to and share love between the most, is the girl your heart is leading you too.
Do not cheat, break up with one or the other before dedicating your love to the one you truly want to continue on with.
Things happen for a reason and sometimes it has to end like this.
@Andrez: infatuated isn't love. It's just like a crush or you want her, but not as a companion for life. Well, decide for yourself how much you like this second girl. If she IS the one for you, if you are more yourself when you're with her, then she might be a better choice than the first girl.
@andrez You are lovestruck by looks. Think more than that. Picture where you could be in the future with each one, and which you feel more love for and stick with her.
[quote=DeniseWong]You're probably just curious or infatuated with the second girl. It will pass.[/quote]
Could you be more specific? Define "infatuated".
Also, I see the second girl everyday at the university, I can't really help it, I don't just ignore people
You're probably just curious or infatuated with the second girl. It will pass.
[quote=Segumisama]"I have a 3 years and 6 months old girlfriend" bro, having a sexual relationship with a child is against the law.
but no, seriously, tell your gf. if you don't then the relationship will never last.[/quote]
I told her about the girl that had a crush on me. She said to just ignore her.. We haven't spoken about it again .. Been on with this all day U.U
[quote=Andrez]Someone answered the same exact thing in my yahoo.answers post, take a look: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20121002164106AAqCKgq
And ummm.. What if I'm just weak [/quote]
That's basically it. If you're just weak, go for the second. If you were strong willed enough, you wouldn't be having thoughts about the second one because you love the first one too deeply to even think about another girl.
"I have a 3 years and 6 months old girlfriend" bro, having a sexual relationship with a child is against the law.
Talk to your girl about it. Tell her that there is another girl who makes you feel good, and you are tempted by this other girl, but you love your girlfriend. or just stop hanging out with/talking to the other girl.
[quote=BoxWoman]If you love one girl and are starting to fall for another, pick the second one. If you really loved the first, you wouldn't haven fallen for the second.[/quote]
Someone answered the same exact thing in my yahoo.answers post, take a look: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20121002164106AAqCKgq
And ummm.. What if I'm just weak
[quote=BoxWoman]If you love one girl and are starting to fall for another, pick the second one. If you really loved the first, you wouldn't haven fallen for the second.
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Beat me to it.
why people ask these kind of things on basil'
[quote=BoxWoman]If you love one girl and are starting to fall for another, pick the second one. If you really loved the first, you wouldn't haven fallen for the second.[/quote]
I was just about to post this.
Basically this.
Cheating is for blunts.