Just some girl problems
I'm usually not the type of person to make these kind of threads but, e_e lately I've been kinda freaking out because of 2 people in my life.
The girl I do like for sure is the same one from this...
http://www.basilmarket.com/forum/1511705/0/How_she_changed_my_life.html#
If you have already read , If it is too big of a wall of text I'll just write a summery
Basiclly she was my best friend for almost 2 years, we started dating and then broke up after I moved. Didn't talk that much for 2 months but then realized we never wanted to break up. But we didn't choose to start going out again. She wants to wait for a year or so. That would be great.. If I didn't meet someone else D:
I met the second girl at camp, in the beginning of august, we really connected for the week we got to spend with each other, it seemed like for a while that she wasn't interested in me for like up until now, but then yea... she said that she loves me :I.. I really have no idea, because I'm hearing that from both of them , that they love me o~o
If you were in my shoes, what would you do? cause I honestly have no idea at the moment... ;x
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[quote=UniqAssassin]Why did you made that promise! T_T JUST GET LAID DUDE![/quote]
I'm Asexual so I really could care less.
And I made the promise because, I really want her to know that even if she can't date now , that ill be there in 2 years
[quote=M0neyJ4cker]really? a girl of 2 years for 1 week campgirl?[/quote]
Lol , I may have been a bit unclear, The 2nd girl asked me out and I'm technically single but I don't want to go out because of a promise I made to the first
@ above
I know :I , If I could be with the first right now I would but like I'm just trying to think about how I can make everyone happy/ hurt someone the least :o
@Chaud: Yea , and it is everyday since I met her, It is everyday lol. A new obstacle to overcome, but always worth it in the end
@Chaud: Yehhhhh, which is kinda where the problem. And yea i know, :I we think way too much alike lol. something that kinda creeps us out a lot.
The whole reason the second girl even became the main issue in this was camp was right after we broke up kind o.~ so yeh... after getting dumped basiclly I saw no problem with flirting and it led me here :I. And when I get home, It leads me here o.~
@Chaud: Guess that makes sense, But funny thing about that last part, She has dated someone since we stopped, and asked me first o.~ I of course let her and just sat back and watched as it failed miserably lol. which was about 3 weeks ago or something. But answering your question, Of course I would let her, wouldn't like it at all but still , who am I to control what she wants?
@Chaud: Lol yea I guess that makes sense ._. I suppose I just have to be careful with what I do :I
[quote=Zephinie]This is too much drama for a 16 year old. It sounds like you like the first girl better right? Then why not wait for her? I'm guessing you already knew that most after highschool relationships fail. My parrents are divorced because of it. My parrents grew up together happy but my dad started changing after five or so years of marriage. So they're divorced now.
I'm not trashing on your posts or saying give up! I just want you too know that in the end, this won't matter as much in your grades in highschool. You seem like a smart get, you get along well with grades I'm guessing? I'd leave both the girls alone and let them come crawling to you. Just do whatever comes instinctively, things work itself out.[/quote]
I know I know, Ofc I would rather be with the first girl its just that, I have no idea what to say to the other, she asked me to prom which is like 8ish months away but my ex/ i have no idea what to call her atm said I should say yes and see where it leads me. But yeh I know what your saying about how things in hs never seem to work out . but its still worth giving a try? grade wise Irdc that much I' do fine in school without trying lol
@OB3LISK
Tbh, I'm not sure, they both have good looks , but If I had to choose in a second Id lean towards 1 , as for that second question I'm not sure as well
@CallMeKev
:o I know, she does way too much for me and I really don't deserve it.
@Chaud
I really really honestly, Do not want to be in a relationship that badly with the second, Of course I would be willing to give her a chance but not because I wanted to , just because she wants to give me a chance. I also do not want to do it because I want to stay loyal to this promise of waiting a few years. Yet if I tell the second she will get depressed and so on :I, which leads to more drama with her and my friends who think that we are "perfect" for each other and I really don't want to take a walk down that road .___.
Which one looks better and is more loyal and more likely to get a job in the real world.
Older women dating is kinda awkward.
[quote=Zephinie]How old are you, if you wouldn't mind sharing?
Relationships shouldn't ever be this complicated. It sounds like the first girl would be a no brainer, but I have yet to read all of that text wall.[/quote]
I'm 16, first girl is 16 and the 2nd is turning 18 soon lol
[quote=lune]Stay with the girl you're already with.
You've had a lot more experiences with her so you will hurt her more if you left her.
The second girl will just shake it off as she probably hasn't done much with you and all.[/quote]
The thing is, I'm not with her techically. I talked to her about this 2nd girl and she thinks that I should give her a chance which just freaks me out a bit
We are "reserved" for when we graduate , supposedly :I
[quote=Iceheart1111]The girl from camp sounds lika a tramp[/quote]
As far as I'm aware of, kinda~ but not really :o
The girl from camp sounds lika a tramp