I think Im falling for this girl online
I'll make this short as possible.
I know her for 6 years now. She lives in Canada and I live in the US. Yes, I met her on MapleStory. Yes, I had visited her and her sister in real life once 4 years ago. She claims she have a boyfriend online. He also lives in Canada but in another province but they never met in real life.
When I was 16, I only had 1 on-and-off relationship with a girl that lasted about a year. Then, I was friendzoned by her cousin for 9 years whom rejected me twice. I got back with my ex for another year solely for F-ing. After that, I cut contacts from them both and vowed never to fall for girls again. Somehow, I became a player and gone out with a decent number of girls for about a year. Then I joined the Navy and hadn't had any lady luck since.
Back to this girl, she was young when I met her. I was 22 and she was 14. Now I'm 28 and she's 20. Originally, I see her only as a friend. She knew also everything about me. Recently, I started to be more flirty around her and she didn't back down like she used to. I even tease her like I would to a girl in real life and she do the same. She even send me pictures of herself and expects me to compliment them. I must say, out of all the girls I had met in my life, she sure is the prettiest.
I told her I was planning to visit again this year and she's pretty excited. So when I do, should I make a move? I sometimes think she may be it. o_O
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i say no because of age gap same what justin said @killeem treat her as a little sis
also how the hell do long distance relationships work. I would be freaked out if someone across the country visited me that i knew in game but thats just me.
show her ur lv 90 dragon spear
i would kill myself if i was as weird as u dude holy pen15
I got cancer just by reading this.. Holy majoly.
You claim to be 28 while asking for dating advice on Basilmarket. I don't think you're ready to be making any moves other than to dig yourself out of the deep, dark hole you're in.
Man, I'm so comfortable with her that if I can actually click Like on any of her old pictures on Facebook and she wouldn't freak out.
It wouldn't be horrible.
People often make the mistake of backtracking some years and claim "you were 'x' when she was 'y', so now it's weird" while simultaneously forgetting that at a certain point, a relationship between two consenting adults (in the relatively same age range as of current) is simply such and should be treated in that light.
He may have been 24 when she was 16, but he's now 28 and she's 20. There's minimal relative difference in cognition in the context of the latter.
People often wouldn't bat an eye at say, a 55 year-old in a relationship with a 44 year-old (at one point being 22 while the other, 11), yet it's essentially the same principle as this given situation. Minimal difference in current cognition.
lulzzzz
Girls be crazy man stay single
wdfff u met her when she was 16 and u 24
also, i would NOT b lookin at her as gf material... instead like a lil sister wth
@GizzyJones
Asian genes, we look the same age.
I say sure, but I think the main priority should be that age gap.