Asking a girl to be my valentines
So like, valentines is coming up, and there is this girl that I really really like. I dont know if she feels the same; I dont think she likes me though, but I heard she really wants to be my friend. For example, when I added her on facebook, she immediately texted her friend, "Its gona be the start of a beautiful relationship!" She already knows that I like her, for years now. Last year she basicallyt told her friend that I should just move on because I cant talk to her and whatnot, ..but idk about now.
Anyways, on valentines day, I am going to get lots of flowers, a stuffed bear, chocolates, and maybe a love letter, and walk up to her in cafeteria during morning and ask her to be my valentines and to go on a date with me. I will be getting my friend to record it as well. We are both seniors in high school btw. Anyways, I am afraid that she will say no, and reject me in front of like everyone in the cafeteria. Even worse, if she does reject me, Idk what to do with the flowers and bears and stuff... Help please.
A lot of people said that she will say yes if I ask her..not because she likes me, but because she is so nice that she cant reject someone. And also, one of our mutual friends also has a crush on her, and he asked her on a date couple monthes ago, and she said yes because she didnt know how to say no. But that was that, she was telling people how she didnt want to lead him on and whatnot, Anyways..help me with all this?
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[quote=YoLoLoLo]Why do i suck D:[/quote]
Ohhhh hahahaha I didn't mean to say you did. I thought he was saying YOLO in... That actual context. I didn't see it as addressing you. Sorry. XD I really dislike when people use YOLO as an excuse to do stupid stuff.... Sorry xP
[quote=hosrack]@Ezperanza11 @YoLoLoLo I mean, its my senior year..might as well yolo LOL. But if i go to her house and do it, wouldnt that come off as creepy since I would have to ask around to see where she lives..? seems weird to me. And uh..is the humilation really that bad even she rejects me? Because pretty much everyone we know, knows that I like her and stuff.[/quote]
If you are so sure go for it! I think you should try. (YOLO..... You suck.. ) anyways, if you don't think it's bad to ahead! The worst she can do is say no and even though you may not see it now there are others out there and if she says no it isn't worth the time anymore
Just my opinion, but I wouldn't ask her in front of a cafeteria full of people. If she really is nice, you're pretty much forcing her to say yes to you, is that what you want to build your relationship off of?
@Ezperanza11 @YoLoLoLo I mean, its my senior year..might as well yolo LOL. But if i go to her house and do it, wouldnt that come off as creepy since I would have to ask around to see where she lives..? seems weird to me. And uh..is the humilation really that bad even she rejects me? Because pretty much everyone we know, knows that I like her and stuff.
You're friend zone, it's hopeless...unless you are low enough to hire some thugs to pretend to bully her, and you come in as a hero to save her. Afterwards say some corny heroic line and she might fall for you. I believe scientist says when a person is under distress usually the become unusually attached to the person who helps them.
[quote=BladeSoul69]Good Luck
but if you do get rejected, send us the video.[/quote]
How mean
OT: I say you should! If she was nice I don't think she would reject you in front of everyone... That's low and having the public there may sway her decision. Cause I mean, no one wants to look like a total biyatch in public if they already have a good and nice reputation... right? Best of luck to you
P.S. in my opinion the video taping MAY be too much... But that's just me. :x if you wanna go ahead! Heyyy I'm a senior too!
Good luck man. Hopefully it'll work out between you two.