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My girlfriend says I need to be more dominant.

I know this means I need to be more assertive and decisive, but how do I be more dominant?

April 19, 2011

12 Comments • Newest first

CrownedSorrow

Say no to everything. Reason? Cause you said so.

Reply April 19, 2011
aethynyc

Dominant, like take control. Pretty much what you said, assertive & decisive (making decisions). Become more "masculine"?

Look up agentic traits.

Reply April 19, 2011
andrewtsia

Maybe you're too whipped

Reply April 19, 2011
plain88

Get drunk and see how things flow from there.

Reply April 19, 2011
MangosOnTheWeb

Say "go make me a sammich" every time she comes over. That's pretty assertive, although you might get slapped a couple times before she gets the message.

Just kidding, but hopefully that will make her see the error of her ways.

Reply April 19, 2011
Fornication

Grab and kiss.
Walk infront of your group, be the alpha male! Work out, eat more, etc.

Reply April 19, 2011
HotDamn

Double post, ignore.

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Deciduous

maybe you just aren't that dominant

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HotDamn

[quote=SadisticGamer]What she means is that you need to have more confidence in yourself. Stop bowing down to others and stand for your own decisions.[/quote]

The thing is, I'm assertive towards everyone except her because I don't want to seem like a jerk.

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solbluefire

When you want to do it, and she says no... don't listen and tell her you're just being "dominant".

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deja

basically you suck at sex.

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MindPlaya

Tell her to get on her knees.

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