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Sad video thread?

Girlfriend dumped me.

I have a hard time expressing emotions 'cause of taking SSRIs for years.

I really want to cry but it's hard to.

Can you guys post the saddest videos you can find?

Thanks~

June 3, 2014

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iHipster

[quote=LazyLazyLazy]mmm i was reusing post content made by @Nashi
i find them informative and comical, im not qualified to give advice like
http://www.basilmarket.com/forum/2705958/7/#44420848[/quote]

Ah well.

Quality post in that linked thread, anyways.

Also to whoever recommended Clannad, that anime sucked.

Reply June 3, 2014
Nolen

[quote=iHipster]The short and to the point approach I took with this post makes it seem like i'm some angsty 15 year old writing this, but a year and a half of living with someone isn't exactly something to scoff at.

It's not quite 3 years like you said, but most of the emotional growth of a relationship takes place in the first year.

My emotional stability was pretty dependent on this girl, honestly.

I went through a HUGE amount of life changes during the time I spent with her.

It's not easy readjusting to living life alone.[/quote]

mmm i was reusing post content made by @Nashi
i find them informative and comical, im not qualified to give advice like
http://www.basilmarket.com/forum/2705958/7/#44420848

Reply June 3, 2014
iHipster

[quote=LazyLazyLazy]Trust me once you actually have a partner that you can fully trust, that you know perfectly and that you've been with for years you will understand that what you felt for that girl was nothing but a mere joke compared to what you share with that person.

I understand you think that, I thought I loved my first boyfriend and I thought I sincerely loved those guys I dated afterwards too... but neither of it lasted and I've been with my man for over 3 years now, we've been through a lot, fought for each other, argued and made up and what I feel for him (which is a combination of so many things like feeling secure, confident, loved, respected, ...) exceeds everything I could have imagined and I almost don't even dare to say that what I had with those guys were actual relationships...

You'll really understand once you have an actual sincere relationship.
People mistake all those feelings of attraction as love far too easily and foolishly (and I was no exception there)[/quote]

The short and to the point approach I took with this post makes it seem like i'm some angsty 15 year old writing this, but a year and a half of living with someone isn't exactly something to scoff at.

It's not quite 3 years like you said, but most of the emotional growth of a relationship takes place in the first year.

My emotional stability was pretty dependent on this girl, honestly.

I went through a HUGE amount of life changes during the time I spent with her.

It's not easy readjusting to living life alone.

Reply June 3, 2014
Nolen

Trust me once you actually have a partner that you can fully trust, that you know perfectly and that you've been with for years you will understand that what you felt for that girl was nothing but a mere joke compared to what you share with that person.

I understand you think that, I thought I loved my first boyfriend and I thought I sincerely loved those guys I dated afterwards too... but neither of it lasted and I've been with my man for over 3 years now, we've been through a lot, fought for each other, argued and made up and what I feel for him (which is a combination of so many things like feeling secure, confident, loved, respected, ...) exceeds everything I could have imagined and I almost don't even dare to say that what I had with those guys were actual relationships...

You'll really understand once you have an actual sincere relationship.
People mistake all those feelings of attraction as love far too easily and foolishly (and I was no exception there)

Reply June 3, 2014
muffinsx

Puts tears to my eyes every time
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G2U8yfKM9nY

Reply June 3, 2014
tsubasa128

Watch Clannad. It should help.

Reply June 3, 2014