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My boyfriend told me

He has imagined us doing "the nasty."

... We just started dating last Saturday.

What do I do? It was incredibly awkward. And I don't want to hurt his feelings but it made me feel uncomfortable and I don't feel [i]that[/i] way..

August 17, 2011

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CoraKora

Wow really, that's low. You guys just dated and he wants to get into your pants already... You should just tell him that you don't want to do that. If he start guilt tripping you or anything to make you feel bad, you should just dump him. Really, girl. Desperate guys are so not cool.

Draw lines in your relationship when you're starting, so your guy will know where not to cross the line. You can't expect guys to think like us girls. You have to be a bit straight forward with them.

Question, why did you dated him?

Reply August 17, 2011
KeybIaderAri

[quote=brofist]so you want to dump him now?[/quote]
No. I don't. He said he imagined us doing it but when we were older.

@above: August 6, 2011. Not the Saturday that just passed.

Reply August 17, 2011 - edited
KeybIaderAri

[quote=Melenie]^ that. You'll regret it...seeing as you come to basil for advice
Tell him honestly that you don't wanna do the nasty and if he breaks up with you... then it's his loss
Also, if that happens, you deserve better than him o.o[/quote]
He said he didn't want to.... he said he felt dirty for thinking that.

But we aren't doing it. And he wants to wait until marriage. But I was wondering what to say to him so he stops saying stuff like that.

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brofist

so you want to dump him now?

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Melenie

^ that. You'll regret it...seeing as you come to basil for advice
Tell him honestly that you don't wanna do the nasty and if he breaks up with you... then it's his loss
Also, if that happens, you deserve better than him o.o

Reply August 17, 2011 - edited
KeybIaderAri

[quote=noiceee]go with plan b: "I have aids"[/quote]
Omgosh. LOL.

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032193sid

[quote=KeybIaderAri]We're 15...

I'm not sleeping with anyone.[/quote]

You're 15

Yeah never mind. Just ignore him, pubescent boys tend to say weird things like that. If you two were older then what he said was an obvious sign that your relationship was lacking something.

Reply August 17, 2011 - edited
KeybIaderAri

[quote=Fronz]How is it awkward? It's what people tend to do when they date...
But you should totally sleep with him.[/quote]
We're 15...

I'm not sleeping with anyone.

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InsaneXPlatypus

Maybe he isn't the one for you?

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happy3happy

That's a hint, no?

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happisquare

Slap that hoe :]

Reply August 17, 2011 - edited
032193sid

Sleep with him

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