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I need girl help

School dance happened. A slow song came on. I asked a girl to dance and she said no and invited me to sit with her.

I messaged the girl on Facebook on Thursday and then Sunday. Facebook says she saw the message. She didn't reply. It's been 2 weeks.

After those 2 weeks, I decided to message her friend. Message seen. No response.

What do I do? Am I doomed to not message either of them at all? Like...I don't want to seem creepy or some crap like that, but how hard is it to even respond that you're busy or something?

November 10, 2012

9 Comments • Newest first

loe151

[quote=ZeroFriends]Question: why are you telling us this, are you implying that you like her?

If So,

Best thing to do is to let as many people (excluding her) know that you like her. (reason being is that her,best, friends will tell her)
Believe me when i say that people LOVE to get other people together. Specially that persons (your crush) friends. [/quote]

Wouldn't asking her to dance be enough of a clue-in?

I didn't ask ANY other girls to dance.

OT: Yes I like her. And her friend. And her other friend. And her other other friend.

I think only the first girl knows I like her though.

Reply November 10, 2012
mattman2623

its obivous that they think your creepy and weird...

Reply November 10, 2012
ZeroFriends

Question: why are you telling us this, are you implying that you like her?

If So,

Best thing to do is to let as many people (excluding her) know that you like her. (reason being is that her,best, friends will tell her)
Believe me when i say that people LOVE to get other people together. Specially that persons (your crush) friends.

Reply November 10, 2012
SmilingCurse

Uhm, I think if they're ignoring you like this, you shouldn't bother with them. It'll only make them want to ignore you even more.

Reply November 10, 2012
Thorontur

[quote=Raika]like @gvjko said, more fish in the sea[/quote]

But he needs to get to the sea

Seriously though unless there was something special about this chick (which doesnt really sound like there is) get over it.

Reply November 10, 2012
Laker1294

Forget them..and move on.

Reply November 10, 2012
loe151

I talk to one of them sometimes in social.

I seriously don't see why they would go out of their way to ignore me.

Usually I complain about being friendzoned and all that junk, but in this case, had none of them wanted to date, I would've at least liked to have been friends.

I tell ya, being completely ignored sucks donkey nuts.

Reply November 10, 2012
gvjko

Just move on. If they ignore you... F()*# 'em.

Reply November 10, 2012
kayfabe

i would be okay with just sitting with her

in any case, if they're trying that hard to ignore you, it's apparent that you can't take a hint

Reply November 10, 2012