Shes not allowed to date, Advice Needed
Well i've been posting multiple threads about this girl I like, and I've tried all of you basiler's advice and it seems to has worked. She admitted to her friends that she does in fact like me. But when she tells them, she always brings up something like, I'm not allowed to date or something, because her friends are the gossipy type and tell everyone everything. So even though she tells them, and I acknowledge she's not allowed to, everyone has been saying to ask her out already. Like "Just ask her out, she'll make an exception" or "Ask her out, you can be smooth, and keep it a secret" I do not want to, because I don't want her under pressure, and if her parents do find out, they will not like me. I'm unsure of what to do. Should I ask her out or just keep it cool with her and be friends that like each other until she is allowed to date?
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[quote=Demonlord]You don't have to date her, just be very [b]VERY[/b] close friends that hang out together [i]a lot[/i].
Don't make it an official relationship, but let everyone around you know she is yours and you are hers.
Loop Holes ~[/quote]
You solved my problem. I guess I'll do this.
@demonlord u know what ur talking about. and doing what u say is even funner than being in an official relationship
Dating is a prerequisite for going into "Trying to get in her pants" phase. No more teen babies pls
@Zarrow: I appreciate you're input.
Straight up ask her parents for permission.
@Zarrow: u r replying his post u know
@Zarrow: Well, you stated that kids "these days" do not realize the "wonders" of life.
I'm simply asking for advice, should I give into peer pressure? Or should I just wait it out like a good boy.
[quote=Zarrow]Jesus christ, do you children ever think about anything other than sex?
I've had it, and it's not that great.
I'm just waiting for the giant revelation when you suddenly realize how much art there is to look at, how much astrology there is to observe, how many places in the world there are to visit, how much culture there is to be a part of, how much music there is to listen to, and that all your life you've been living in some standardized little box hidden away from the world.
Kid, you know 0.1% of what's out there, and sex is just one aspect of being human, and living on earth.
Open your eyes and see that your problems aren't a big deal, at all.
Your time is running out.[/quote]
Inspiring, I keep trying to be part of the pop culture but it just seems to be that there is too much to read/watch/do.
So much series, movies, comic books, anime and more I want to enjoy but it feels like everyday is wasted.
[quote=Zarrow]Jesus christ, do you children ever think about anything other than sex?
I've had it, and it's not that great.
I'm just waiting for the giant revelation when you suddenly realize how much art there is to look at, how much astrology there is to observe, how many places in the world there are to visit, how much culture there is to be a part of, how much music there is to listen to, and that all your life you've been living in some standardized little box hidden away from the world.
Kid, you know 0.1% of what's out there, and sex is just one aspect of being human, and living on earth.
Open your eyes and see that your problems aren't a big deal, at all.
Your time is running out.[/quote]
I'm not looking for sex.
[quote=WrathX]Do you like her?[/quote]
Yes, Very Much.