How do you break up with someone that is suicidal?
So I've been dating this person for awhile and I REALLY want to end the relationship. The only problem is is that they are suicidal as hell and think they are nothing without me. o.o They even said themselves that if I ever leave them they will probably just end their life. Normally I would think they are just manipulating me to stay but they have attempted suicide before so I'm kind of scared they will actually do it. I was thinking of ending it then going to the police station after to have them deal with it to make sure he doesn't do anything stupid. Also I have no way of contacting his mom so that is out of the question. (before you ask I'm not gay I'm a female) Any idea on what I should do? I hate getting with someone then realizing they are crazy as hell after.
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You break up with them and they deal with it. They're obviously not strong enough to handle it. Let the weak [b]die[/b] off.
That guy/girl crazy and you need to end it before he/she tried to take you with her/him
if you want a guy to stop liking you, just show him all the love you can give him, if not more. Be the creeper, that'll sure annoy the s!t out of him for sure.
The only reason why he is crazy about you now is because you dont give him enough attention. So, for the next week or so, endure it. Be as lovey dovey as you can to him. people want what they cant get. And right now, im sure your treating him like something that is not worth your while.
this works for girls as well.
Doesn't sound like something a guy would do. . . . . .
LOL whatever you do, make sure you're protected yourself. srs, psycho mofo might just first end your life before his own.
Stay safe OP.
@Snovvy: Thanks for clearing that up I guess
Oh lord. I feel for you OP. I was stuck in a situation like this once.
I honestly had no idea what to do. Eventually she ended up having some sort of psychotic break and broke up with me so she ended up doing it herself.
Just say something like even if you two break up, you'll always be there for her or some crap. You gotta be gentle with her.
OH WOW. I totally didn't read you were a girl and the boy is suicidal.
Tell him the man the eff up and don't be such a baby. Pffft. I love how my tone changes when the genders are reversed.
Don't break up with him then, since he is most likely treated like trash if he is that suicidal.
@Snovvy: Nevermind then. Just a random thought
Just break up with him, it's the best thing to do. If he does end up committing suicide, at least you know it's not your fault since they were always like that.
If this person has been bullied and is just treated like trash on a daily basis, I wouldn't recommend it.
If otherwise, I would just do break up with him. I've done it to a girlfriend who supposedly was suicidal. She's still alive.
fffff
if they are stupid enough to kill themselves cause someone doesnt want to be with them let them
break up and say
do it fgt
People who would commit suicide in these types of situations are cowards. Notify the police/parents/whoever, break up with him, and go home with a clean conscious because you did the right thing.
You need to break up with them. If you want, you could tell them that you are there to support them as a friend. Also you should tell them to call the suicide hotline. I would take them seriously, because depression isn't a joke.
You do need to break up with them, that relationship isn't healthy for either of you. If they do commit suicide after the break-up, that's not on your shoulders. You were the responsible party in being true to your feelings and respecting theirs by ending the relationship instead of leading them on. I'd suggest trying to get them checked into a hospital or hooked up with some sort of mental help if you're that concerned though.
@ObeySWAG:
i got chu brotha.
[quote=Ipoopster]text her that you want to break up with her. you wont see her 2morrow anyways [/quote]
Waow. Good idea I'll do that right now.
Tell someone close to them before you break up with them.
text her that you want to break up with her. you wont see her 2morrow anyways