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whats your definition of a committed relationship?

So recently my gf decided to call our relationship committed, which got me thinking what really does that mean? I thought it meant that you have aspects of your life to hold you together ex. I quit smoking to stay with her .

This got me thinking though, there's no clear definition to what a committed relationship is. So what does a committed relationship mean to you basil?

April 8, 2012

9 Comments • Newest first

romperz

[quote=LifeLoveStress]Bro committed relationships are a waste of time, trust me and call this off. Its better to be with as many girls you could be. I mean she told you to quit smoking for her? Why would you go out with someone that can't accept who you originally are. But the piece of advice is for like high school people. What's your age? o.o[/quote]

im 20 almost 21 and she didnt tell me to quit, I quit because she has asthma

Reply April 8, 2012
Deciduous

it's an unnecessary and stupid label
i feel like it's pretty easy to gauge the level of the relationship without being arbitrary like that

Reply April 8, 2012
BlazingChees

I prefer open relationships where you and your girlfriend are just as comfortable around you as she is with her best friend. You guys would tell each other anything, you would screw around with strangers a.k.a prank people, but also be romantic at the same time.

Reply April 8, 2012
Dinoxsaurus

Committed relationship means that if you get into a fight with her, you are simply NOT allowed to say 'break up' to deal with the situation.

Reply April 8, 2012
achyif

For me it's when you expect to live with the person for the rest of your life on equal grounds and accept all of his/her faults and be able to live with those faults.
It's pretty much what comes with a typical non-divorce marriage

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Tainysi

I guess it's where you say you want to be together for the rest of your lives and marry?

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Miney

[quote=romperz]erm I think that is generally what a relationship is lol[/quote]
Not if you have an open relationship

Reply April 8, 2012
romperz

[quote=Miney]For me, which mean you only sleep with this one person, only kiss this one person, want to have a family with only this one person[/quote]

erm I think that is generally what a relationship is lol

Reply April 8, 2012
Miney

For me, which mean you only sleep with this one person, only kiss this one person, want to have a family with only this one person

Reply April 8, 2012