How to break up with my girlfriend.
I need to break up with my girlfriend, and if not today then very soon. She's done so much wrong, she's been unfaithful to me, she's lied to me even from the beginning of the relationship (I didn't find out until recently, about 2 months in), she's manipulated me, she's gotten me to lie to people. And yeah that last part is partly my fault too, for falling into it, but either way she's done enough. Especially cheating on me. I'm just done with it all, I don't want to be in a relationship who doesn't love me and respect me the same way I do for her.
The problem is I have no way of getting over to her house, and she has no way of getting to my house, for at least a week or more. A mutual friend of ours told me I should do it over the phone. I'm thinking this would work, cause I'm not gonna live another week at least of this BS. And it's not like I'm gonna call her and be like "We're done kay bye". No, I'm gonna talk everything out and let her talk and stuff, but bottom line things are done.
I just want to know, in this situation, is breaking up over the phone "okay"? I would do it in person, but I can't legally drive yet, and I'd have to deal with another week of this...
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@Koonie: I'm 16.
Just got off the phone. Things are done.
Hit it 1 more time and quit it
I don't understand why you stay with her for that long if she's treated you that bad? I know guys irl that if their girls ever pulled that crap on them, they'd be dumped immediately... don't get hung on this girl. how old are you anyway?
[quote=sellinscrolls]Cheat on her.
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I'd rather just break up with her and find someone more faithful and worth my time, effort, and money. Plus I don't like revenge. Thanks for the advice though
Cheat on her.
oh lol thought u were a yea u know
@PIaguedwind: That's not what I'd like. I wouldn't feel good for saying that and I'm sure she wouldn't feel good about that either. That's just rude.
@hermitskillz: She's not even with it. And like it's already been said, she's basically a prostitute...I don't need that.
@xxsasuke20xx: I'm sorry, that's a terrible situation to be in. If I was you I'd meditate on what to do (or if you're religious pray, or if you're like me do both), just think about what the best decision for you both would be and how to go about doing so.
@xFirework: Well at least he's the one who looks like an idiot then, I'm sure he definitely wasn't worth it.
[quote=xxsasuke20xx]Im honestly in the same situation as you. I envy you for having the courage to do this, I can't break up with mine because she threatens herself all the time.[/quote]
uhh your a girl arnt u?
@BliksemSagitta: She doesn't play maplestory.
@xFirework: At least that's before feelings and the relationship get pretty strong but nonetheless that's terrible
[quote=shikachibi]@BurnedFrozen: As much as I love Smosh, I don't think any of those are right for me.
@SoulXIV: I kinda want to explain things out though, I'm hoping I'll be able to change her so that in the future she doesn't make any of these mistakes again with another guy.
@xFirework: It really isn't
@Nuwen: Even after all this I believe she still deserves at least the respect of a phone call.
@siuttybears: I wasn't even considering it.[/quote]
I know it shouldn't be, i just posted the first thing that came to mind.
@BurnedFrozen: As much as I love Smosh, I don't think any of those are right for me.
@SoulXIV: I kinda want to explain things out though, I'm hoping I'll be able to change her so that in the future she doesn't make any of these mistakes again with another guy.
@xFirework: It really isn't
@Nuwen: Even after all this I believe she still deserves at least the respect of a phone call.
@siuttybears: I wasn't even considering it.
text is for pus*sys just saying
Pro tip: Don't break up in PERSON. And make it clear that your relationship is ending; Make it quick and clean.
I think that should do it.
Where is this video.. ah there we go.
[url=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HrH1RYzTBwU]I don't know if this'll help, hope it gives you ideas.[/url]
[quote=xFirework]@shikachibi: Sounds like she's a hoe~ no offense intended~[/quote]
No, I know, she did it once and that really made me uneasy about her, the fact that she's most likely doing it again definitely speaks for itself.
@siuttybears: I guess you have a point I just really am not a rude person at all, I probably wouldn't like being rude to her... the main thing is I want her to realize she's losing a good guy because of her stupid decisions. I've never done her any wrong and every promise I've ever made to her I kept and still have and will even after all this.
@grudge49: Thank you, and no I don't worship her or anything, but I do give her enough respect that I feel a person deserves.
if she know that u know that shes cheating on someone u really dont have to be unrude to her. cause shes not even trying to lie. which means that she wants u to know that shes cheating on u so youll break up with her . my guess .
i took this from another post "if you fall in love with two people thn you should go for the second because if you truly loved the first person you wouldn't have fallen for the second". She's the one that likes two people and you're the first.
@xFirework: Thank you for answering my question
@donts63: did you read the edit on my post at the bottom of the first page? She's currently running around with another guy and making excuses for me and her not to hang out. Another week of that is hell. I have a good feeling she's cheating on me again and we've only been going out for 2 months...
[quote=donts63]@shikachibi: Then PRESERVE HER WITH WATER AND PET HER HEAD GENTLY AND SOOTHINGLY.
Just, you know, make sure to do it in all caps. kbrah?
You could also kick her in your own balls.[/quote]
Kay cool you're really no help at all.
@siuttybears: She told me that she cheated on me the first time, but she told me a month after it happened...and I don't know that she is again now, but I wouldn't doubt it.
does she know that u know that shes cheating on someone
@guydudeasian: ugh. my webcam broke....long story but basically bringing your laptop in the shower = bad idea. And thanks that's why I'm breaking things off today.
@donts63: I'm really not a violent guy unless I need to be, and this is definitely not a situation where I'd need to be...and I wouldn't ever burn anyone with fire that's terrible. :O also you don't quite understand the situation. I should've also mentioned that I've been on vacation the past two weeks and I came home this week to see her, only to find out she's out running around with another guy...AGAIN....and he's 18 (she's almost 16). The last guy she cheated on me with was like 22. But yeah, she doesn't even wanna see me anymore. I've invited her over here to hang out and whatnot and she's made excuses. I'm not gonna wait another week with this bullsht.
[quote=siuttybears]aww that sucks [/quote]
Sorry, thanks for the ideas though.
aww that sucks
@siuttybears: I'm not really big on revenge
well hasnt she been rude to u?
btw that parts optional XD
@sasaki26: Thank you.
@Frigder: Sorry, I'd rather explain everything that went wrong. Hopefully that'd steer her in the right direction with her next relationship.
@slyicez: We never had sex, we went all the way up to sex, but didn't have sex. We probably would've in the near future too, but she isn't worth it...
@siuttybears: I probably will, but I won't swear at the end, that's quite rude
@happisquare: I'd like to do it in the most respectful way I can, but as soon as I can. I'd like to show her that even though she's done me wrong, I'm still a nice and respectable person.
Use an email the way to break up with people
tell her what u told us and end it by swearing to her
[quote=slyicez]Tell her the condom broke.[/quote]
She'll dump you within seconds. It's a perfect plan.
Tell her the condom broke.