Basil Market i need ur heelpppp Valentines High school
Storytime:
Valentine was tomorrow except high school dont have school on 2/14 so of course it was celebrated a day early. The day started out the same as every other day except now i was seeing more couples kissing about in the corners where security wouldn't catch them. 1st period passed by as well as 3rd. exiting out for lunch with my best buddy we saw the pillars that support the shade over the benches, was decorated hearts with names written on them with different complements.(I had no idea when they had the time to do this, but i remember a lot of slips being passed out to go to the yearbook room) except all of them didn't have the name of the sender, they were all organized by alphabet. So the moment when we finished our lunch we went about too look for our little secret admirer note. first we went to my pillar where the first letter of my name was. unfortunately i didn't find it at that moment but i did spot a second pillar, When i was called by my buddy to go look for his. we went to his section was.( he got one no surprise to me tho) we were about to go to the library where i decided to go back to the second pillar where at the great extent of surprise was my note written on there. I carefully grabbed it and walked away from the pillar. i read the note, unlike the others ones this one didn't have a line or compliment. Instead i found my name big and in the middle with two hearts next to it. Then a feeling went in me, I recognized this writing, I didn't know from where but it seem familiar.... So i went through the possibilities of all the girls i been talking too since the start of the year. I had two choices either this overweight girl in P.E or this not so attractive sophomore girl which i had the next visual arts period. during working time i went to where her name was written. the writing did not aline except maybe the a looked similar. I ruled her out as well as the other one since i never seen her writing. Going back to my house i had another feeling went over me saying "What If......" I walked to my room and went to where i had my one and only birthday present given by another classmate in elementary school (I was verbally bullied back then by the whole class) and she was my crush and the only one who didn't say anything bad about me. The present was a birthday note nothing much but certainly it meant alot to me. opening it I compared it too the secret valentine heart note. There were a lot of similarities. the "l" slightly moved to the left like the note, the A ,Y and O looked identical. my crush was with me in my 3rd per class and she was very attractive with a great personality and rack. (Wink,Wink) I didn't know whether or not it could be her but i don't want to make a fool of myself.
Here is my question basil should I confront her or should i get a bit more writing of her before i know of certain it is her, and how should i confront her?
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@ZeDarkLynx: Goodlucky! Be casual.
@Reticent: teachers here like when stundents give more effort to their work but that just a regional thing and honestly i did factor in alot of girls which i spend time in class, but even though i dident belive it at first the writing were a bit too similar. Oh well wish me luck that i don't make a fool of myself
@ZeDarkLynx: Yeah, but we also have a very simple language system that can easily result in people having very similar handwriting as others so its not like its impossible that it could be someone else's handwriting. Though, since you seem so adamant that it is indeed her handwriting, just ask her if she wrote it. @-@
And no. We don't have any of what you just mentioned. No one here gets extra credit for neat handwriting except maybe back in 1st grade. And no one here practices their handwriting or repeat their hand writing in a neater fashion nor does anyone strive for neater handwriting unless for their own personal pleasure of having neater handwriting. I'm guessing handwriting is a big deal where you're from so I'm guessing everyone sticks with a style of handwriting. For me, if you looked at my writing back in elementary to my writing now, I don't write any of the letters the same anymore for anyone to be able to correlate it back to me. But I guess that's just me.
[quote=Reticent]O-O. I don't understand you. My friends don't practice their handwriting. LOL. who practices their handwriting? Are you trying to say that you and your friends as well as your crush don't write anything on paper ever? And I'm not talking about neatness or ugliness, I'm talking about specific changes in your handwriting. For example, the way I write my g's are not the same as I used to write them. I don't close the circle on the g anymore, so it just looks like an s now. etc etc. and I used to write my 8 like a snowman. two circles on top of each other. but now I just do the quick one stroke swiggle for the 8. And I used to write the i like the imaginary i, where it has a curl at the end, but I stopped.
Secondly, I don't really understand how you're correlating grades(?) to neatness of handwriting. I have A's and I have the worst handwriting. They also have A's and have neat handwriting.
Lastly, so are you agreeing with me that your crush's handwriting probably changed? O-O"
Anyways, I hope your crush had very distinctive handwriting. because letters like "a,y, and o" tend to be very similar among all girls. Especially the o and y.[/quote]
Lol let me hit you with some science every human has more than 30 individuals muscles that are used to have extreme precision and grip power, as well as the flexibility of the wrist which stays with you for your life. They are all different with every person and is influenced by their lifestyle. For example, a girl who plays violin must have great precision for tuning sounds and creating the necessary position to make it otherwise this person had trained her hand to be more precise in which equals a better handwriting. Then take me for another example, I've always been working with my father in construction in which i gain more gripping power but results in more sloppy writing .I don't know about your family and such but it a normal practice around here to make children repeat their writing in a more neater fashion but even though you make it neater or ugler there are still traces of your original strokes. think of it as more as a dna, it something that people can easily differ to other individuals. oh and a lot of very ambitious people often make their writing much neater so teachers will give them extra credits, which is why i said that.
O-O. I don't understand you. My friends don't practice their handwriting. LOL. who practices their handwriting? Are you trying to say that you and your friends as well as your crush don't write anything on paper ever? And I'm not talking about neatness or ugliness, I'm talking about specific changes in your handwriting. For example, the way I write my g's are not the same as I used to write them. I don't close the circle on the g anymore, so it just looks like an s now. etc etc. and I used to write my 8 like a snowman. two circles on top of each other. but now I just do the quick one stroke swiggle for the 8. And I used to write the i like the imaginary i, where it has a curl at the end, but I stopped.
Secondly, I don't really understand how you're correlating grades(?) to neatness of handwriting. I have A's and I have the worst handwriting. They also have A's and have neat handwriting.
Lastly, so are you agreeing with me that your crush's handwriting probably changed? O-O"
Anyways, I hope your crush had very distinctive handwriting. because letters like "a,y, and o" tend to be very similar among all girls. Especially the o and y.
@fraddd: yearbooks kids call people to their work shop, asked them to write their crush name on it with something witty the yearbook people did not write the notes because i checked and all of the wirtings are different
@Reticent: wirting changes with each person some get a little neater some get ugler but it could also depends on the person practice. your friends probably have neat writing since they practice it, which btw u probably have all As friends
@ZeDarkLynx: because it does? It did for me and most of my friends. We even had a sit down once and talked about how much our handwriting changed since being a freshman in high school and being a senior in high school / start of college and compared our old work we turned in back then to how we write now. And this was just in a couple years. You really think an elementary school kid would retain their handwriting all the way to high school. Kind of unlikely. O.o not saying its impossible, just pretty unlikely and since a lot of girls in high school tend to write very neatly and similarly, high chances it could be some other girl.
@ZeDarkLynx: so all the notes are from yearbook kids? Or the yearbook kids give the notes to everyone and that person has to send it to a "special someone".
@reticent yes I'm agreeing lol
[quote=ZeDarkLynx]@Reticent: what makes you say that hand wirting changes[/quote]
yeah mein mai handwriting is still the same. ugly
@Reticent: what makes you say that hand wirting changes
@fradddd Yeahhh. You're agreeing, right? @-@ Most "pretty/neat" girl writing look very similar to each other! and isn't the TS's only proof of handwriting from his crush just a note all the way from elementary school? Pretty sure handwriting changes pretty easily over the years. Though sometimes handwriting changes back. LOL. Let's hope the TS's crush has ugly writing so it can be more of a definite "yes" that it's her.
[quote=fradddd]@ZeDarkLynx: so every person gets one? Who writes the message?
@Reticent from what I've seen most "pretty" writing is girl writing, and most "pretty" girl writing looks the same.[/quote]
Well mr fraddd if you read through my little essay i wrote that alot of slips were being passed out to go to yearbook room where they most probably asked them to write a note to a special someone without their name included in it
@ZeDarkLynx: so every person gets one? Who writes the message?
@Reticent from what I've seen most "pretty" writing is girl writing, and most "pretty" girl writing looks the same.
How does elementary school handwriting still stay with you all the way to high school? O-O unless i'm reading this wrong?
and most girls handwriting in high school was always pretty similar if it was neat handwriting. x.x (I never had neat hand writing so everyone would know it was me, but whenever it was pretty handwriting people would be like "oh, didn't blank blank write this.. or is it blank blanks writing?"
[quote=fradddd]Wait, please explain this weird note thing again?[/quote]
its a heart shape note that they put on the pillars in alphabet order of the name of the person that will receive it
Wait, please explain this weird note thing again?
[quote=ox0Shad0w0xo]If yes, tell her you like her. If no, ask her if she'd be willing to help you figure it out because you're stumped.[/quote]
This is your best bet. Also if it is her, you get a smooth little transition to dating/getting a date.
TLDR: I got a secret admirer note, and it looks like the same handwriting as my crush. Should I confront her? and how should I confront her?
Anyway, that was incredibly wordy, but I say just tell her you thought it looked liker her handwriting and wanted to know if it was her. If yes, tell her you like her. If no, ask her if she'd be willing to help you figure it out because you're stumped.
You're way overthinking it, you either find your answer or spend the next few years wondering what would have happened if you did.